Is cheating the beginning of misfortune for a woman?

Why do women cheat on their wives and seek extramarital affairs? This question has been bothering many men who have experienced their wives' "marriage changes". These men don’t know where they went wrong. They just put all the blame on women, but never think about why women choose to have extramarital affairs.

The marriage of Yanan and Liu Fei was arranged by their parents and matchmaker in their hometown of Yunnan. Deep in the mountains of Yunnan, there are many women like Yanan who are still being victimized by feudal arranged marriages. Maybe people here are used to this kind of life, or maybe women who are already married and have children are unwilling to make what they think is meaningless struggles, so here, very few people have extramarital affairs.

However, Yanan is an exception. She has been an excellent student since childhood and was admitted to high school through her own efforts. Although she returned to the countryside after graduation, her thoughts had been influenced by the idea of ​​free love and she was always ready to pursue her "true love".

Forced to get married, and seeing her mother holding a stick to her neck to threaten her to get married, Yanan got into the wedding car crying. But at that moment, she also decided that even if they got married, she would break up sooner or later if it wasn't true love. As expected, her husband turned out to be a man more than ten years older than her. He had no humor and no love, only rough and boring sex and a boring life. After half a year of this, Yanan finally saw her first love when she went to the city to see a doctor. Although the man was married, the two of them felt like they were back in the past after they met... Thinking of her failed marriage and looking at the face she loved so much, Yanan shed tears of excitement. That night, Yanan did not go home. She and her first love spent a passionate night in a hotel. Yanan was intoxicated that night. She realized that sex could be so perfect.

From then on, Yanan started an extramarital affair. She always believed that only an extramarital affair could make her happy. However, when Yanan finally divorced her husband and proposed to her first love, she was deeply disappointed by his rejection. She regretted saying that she had thought that only an extramarital affair could make her happy, but she didn't expect that the extramarital affair brought her nothing but cheating, and even the home that she had always cared about no longer existed.

Women cheat because they think that extramarital affairs are the beginning of their happiness

What men who have experienced their wives having extramarital affairs don’t know is that women’s mentality of having extramarital affairs at this time is to escape from an “unhappy” marriage. They believe that cheating is the beginning of happiness.

Women always compare their lovers with their husbands during extramarital affairs, believing that their lovers are more gentle, more romantic, and more able to take care of their women than their husbands. In fact, these behaviors of lovers are just their tricks to deceive women's bodies. It is possible that they will beat their wives after returning home. It's just that in this kind of "cheating" behavior, their tricks only cover up their ugliness.

Therefore, women should not only see the happy side of themselves in extramarital affairs. Extramarital affairs are not the button that starts happiness. After all, a large number of examples tell us that when lovers get married, most of them end up on the verge of divorce.