Emergencies in women's most private parts

The embarrassment of women's private life is a topic that is rarely mentioned because you may find it difficult to talk about it. However, if you are married or have a stable boyfriend, these strange events between the two sexes may happen one day, making you embarrassed and at a loss. Don't know whether you should go to the gynecologist right away or think of other solutions? Don't panic, you can learn from the following examples how to deal with emergencies in the most private parts of women, resolve embarrassment, and make your sex life happy and healthy.

Private embarrassment 1: Used a tampon but forgot to take it out, and now you can't find it

What will make you realize that you forgot to take out the tampon is definitely the unpleasant smell. This smell comes from the large amount of bacteria growing on the surface of the bloody tampon retained in the vagina. As time goes by, the types of bacteria become more and more, and the smell becomes stronger and stronger. These bacteria do not cause harmful vaginal infection, but they can cause symptoms of toxicity, which are rare and usually occur after using a high-absorbency tampon for more than 8 hours, with symptoms such as high fever or vomiting. The key to the problem is that when you realize that you forgot to take out the tampon, the cotton string of the tampon is no longer there: the tampon has been in the body for a few days, and the cotton string certainly won’t stay in its original place.

Solution: Lie flat on the bed, wash your hands, insert two fingers into the vagina, and try to feel the position of the cotton thread. If you can't find it, you can also put a chair in the bathroom, put one foot on the chair, and use the same method to find it, or squat or bend over, change your body posture, and try to move the tampon inside the body towards the vaginal opening.

Using a small amount of lubricant can help your fingers enter the vagina smoothly, but don't use too much, otherwise the tampon will be too slippery and difficult to remove; and don't be too anxious: if you are too nervous, your vaginal muscles will tighten, pulling the tampon deeper into the body.

If the above methods do not work, you should go to the hospital for gynecological emergency as soon as possible. The doctor has special instruments and techniques to help you remove the tampon, which can be done in a few minutes. By the way, ask the doctor to do a vaginal examination for you to see if you are infected with any bacteria, and then you can leave.

Private embarrassment No. 2: The condom slipped out of the vagina

This is likely to happen if the condom is too tight or too loose for your partner, or if the man doesn't hold the base of the condom when pulling out his penis. Another possibility is excessive excitement leading to overly violent intercourse. Whatever the reason, the loss of this little rubber condom is not good for the health of either of you. The moment the condom slips off, the body fluids of both people mix, greatly increasing the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. This is also equivalent to unprotected sexual intercourse. If the woman is not taking birth control pills, it is very likely to cause pregnancy.

Solution: Remove the condom from the vagina immediately, as the rubber component may irritate the folds of the vaginal wall. Gently wipe your vulva with a damp wipe or clean tissue, lie on your back, and have your partner use clean hands to insert two fingers into your vagina to help you remove the condom.

Just like a forgotten tampon, you can also remove a condom that is deeply seated by placing one foot on a chair or squatting. If it is still difficult to remove after a few hours, go to a gynecologist for emergency treatment as soon as possible.

Next is the important post-contraceptive measures: If you are not taking contraceptive pills, you should consult a doctor immediately. Emergency contraceptive pills must be taken within 72 hours of condom slippage.

To be on the safe side, have your partner get tested for STDs with you, as he or she may not be aware that he or she is a carrier of STDs.

Private embarrassment No. 3: You leak a little urine when you orgasm

Many women find it difficult to control the bladder sphincter during orgasm, especially when the woman is on top. This is because a large amount of fluid is secreted from the vagina when a woman reaches orgasm. Therefore, many men will not notice the presence of urine, but women will feel very embarrassed and annoyed, which may affect their sexual psychology and pleasure. In fact, this phenomenon is normal, because the entire pelvic muscles of women during orgasm are very relaxed, especially the bladder sphincter.

Solution: To avoid this situation, you can drink less water before having sex and go to the bathroom at least once before going to bed. During sex, the less urine stored in the bladder, the less likely it is to leak urine when reaching orgasm.

Another important method is to exercise your bladder sphincter. Contracting your bladder sphincter frequently makes them stronger, allowing you to restrain the urine before you feel it is about to flow out. The specific method is to pretend that you are urinating, and then suddenly contract the bladder sphincter to stop the urine flow. You can practice it at any time, 10 times a day will do it.

Private embarrassment No. 4: Vaginal itching caused by using sex toys

First of all, relax. If you disinfect the sex toys before use, the itching will not be caused by bacterial infection. The possible reason is allergy to the material of the product. You should read the instructions carefully before use and buy adult products in regular stores.

Solution: Stop using it temporarily and make sure it is carefully disinfected before use. If it is due to material allergy, it should be replaced immediately. Also, don't use sex toys too frequently.

Underwear Rescue Plan

When your period comes suddenly and you don't use sanitary pads beforehand, you may worry that the blood stains on your carefully selected underwear can never be washed off. Here are a few tips to save your underwear.

★Small drops of fresh blood stains: Dip a paper towel in some of your saliva (saliva contains chemicals that can break down blood cells), press it on the blood stain, and then wash it immediately.

★For blood stains that have already solidified: Apply a drop of detergent containing peroxide, which can break down the protein in the blood. Then leave it for 30 minutes and then wash it according to normal procedures.

★No dried blood stains: Use a cleaner containing peroxide, which will break down blood proteins without leaving any color. Wash as usual after a few minutes.