Why do girls get jealous?

For boyfriends and girlfriends, jealousy will occur when they see each other being too intimate with other people. Especially for male friends, they often don’t know what they have done wrong. Their girlfriends will be jealous and angry and won’t talk to them. They may even ask for a breakup. After thinking about it, they still don’t know how to ask for their girlfriend’s forgiveness. So why do girls get jealous? Let’s take a look.

1. Polite and Extraordinary Sometimes, if an introverted woman finds a suspicious target approaching her lover, she will take alternative coping methods. This extra politeness that can make a man feel frightened can directly keep a man away and freeze his loving heart. A man can feel the strong jealousy from her unusual demeanor and attitude, which will make a man think twice or even stop in his tracks.

2. Harassment and pestering. In order to prevent the invasion of other women, some women will use very clingy methods to keep a close eye on men and keep their men under their surveillance 24 hours a day. Sometimes, they will restrict the men's actions and even harass the men and their relatives without restraint, just to let everyone know that this man has a woman, and this woman is me.

3. Flattering and unusually gentle. Once a woman finds a potential emotional rival, she will first suppress her inner anxiety. While examining herself, she will use even more intense flattery on her lover. Whether it is clothing and appearance, temper or speech, it will be different from before, so that the man can discover her gentleness and charm, and achieve the purpose of excluding others.

4. Going crazy and becoming a shopaholic. There are many ways for women to vent their inner anxiety and dissatisfaction, but the most common way is crazy shopping or crazy consumption, which is another manifestation of women's transfer of possessiveness. Sometimes, jealous women will lose their rationality when spending. They go on a shopping spree just to achieve inner balance, just to relieve their depressed mood, just to get another kind of satisfaction of possession.

5. Paranoid and unreasonable women tend to be depressed. They cannot reflect on themselves well and are hard to listen to other people's explanations or sincere advice. They always like to get stuck in dead ends and always feel that the other party has let them down in everything, or they always feel that they have worked hard but cannot get the other party's sincerity. They even imagine themselves as "not marrying anyone but a certain person".

6. Crying and making a fuss, losing all their dignity. Some women are good at crying and making a fuss when they are jealous, no matter if they are at home or at work, and no matter what occasion their men are in. They cry, make a fuss, and even threaten to commit suicide, which really makes men feel overwhelmed and humiliated. They lose all their dignity, especially when dealing with men who are leaders and are very lustful. They seem at a loss when facing their wives' killer moves.

7. The ones who go crazy and behave abnormally are those women who follow their lovers to public places. They will have verbal or physical conflicts with jealous women in front of everyone. At the same time, they will make a big noise at home, smash the table, throw things, and even ignore their relatives. They will even report the quarrel to the other party's unit or parents, and they look like they are determined to destroy themselves together.

8. Cold war, indifference. Many introverted or rational women prefer to use cold violence to express their jealousy. This cold war includes no longer paying attention to the other party, no longer expressing their inner feelings to the other party, no longer dating the other party or even rejecting the other party's date request, and no longer taking the initiative to contact the other party by phone.

9. Self-mutilation and suicide The most terrifying thing is women mutilating themselves, such as cutting their wrists and taking medicine, tattooing their lovers' names on their bodies, turning themselves into a woman who has fallen into depravity and seen through the world, and even choosing to become a nun or threatening to commit suicide, etc., forcing men to live in great insecurity.

10. Hurt and beat up the rival. A woman with an extroverted personality may list her rival as the number one target of hatred. She will try every means to find her brothers and sisters or friends to retaliate and beat her up. She may also find her rival's workplace and embarrass her in public. She may even make her an immoral woman who is reviled in the online world and do everything she can to humiliate and humiliate her rival.