How should girls fall in love

As a girl, we all hope that someone can care for and love us. Many girls are very ignorant about love, especially young girls. They are always full of fantasies about love, think that love is very romantic, and long to find their own prince charming. In fact, girls should still proceed from reality and choose the best one that suits them. So, how should girls fall in love?

1. How to fall in love

1. Love is not everything

For girls, love can only account for 30%, while family and friends account for 70%. You should know that men will consider their careers more important than you, and there is no need for you to put them first. Staying together all day long will not create social value. No matter how much you love each other, you still have to live. If he is busy with work, you should also be busy and work hard to create value for the future.

2. Don’t threaten to break up

90% of girls say that they break up in order to get the man to stay with them and to prove that the other party still cares about them. This is risky. 50% of the girls achieve their goal, and 50% actually break up. Girls who break up are sad and blame themselves, but why do they do that? So if your boyfriend treats you well, you should cherish him.

3. Don’t be too nice to him

Don't be a saint in love and don't be too nice to a man. If you treat him as well as his mother, he will take your love for him for granted. You have to make him worry about gains and losses, make him unsure how much you love him, make him nervous and maintain his desire to conquer, so that you can win his heart.

4. Being in love does not mean getting married

This is not irresponsible towards love, it just means that both of you should observe whether he is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. If the man has no plans to marry you for the time being, don't be sad. You can also have more time to choose the right person, and he may not be the only one.

2. Skills of dating

Be a little softer

Use it in the early stages of a relationship, any time you need help. Boys like to be heroes. When helping girls, boys instantly feel heroic. From small things like moving things around to big things like financial assistance, as long as he feels that he is useful and needed by you, he will feel proud. He who helps you will love you more. Only girls who need boys are attractive. There are two tips for using this weapon. First, do not give random opinions or blind orders, as this will erase his masculinity and make him disgusted. Second, be grateful. No matter how small the favor he has done for you, thank him, praise him, and treat him as a hero. This way you will get more affection from boys in the future.

Keep it mysterious

The relationship between the two is in an unclear stage. Boys are very curious. When faced with a girl whose inner thoughts and motivations are difficult to understand, this sense of mystery is an attraction that attracts them to explore and discover her secrets. Boys are born with a desire to conquer. The more reserved, inexplicable and difficult to control you are, the more fascinated they will be. Don't let boys think you are easily available. A boy once complained about girls who were always submissive, "She fell down before I even raised my gun." So, no matter how attracted you are to him, you can't act too impatient. Only by keeping a certain distance can beauty be achieved. In order to finally conquer you and accompany you, boys will not only not feel it is hard, but will find it endless fun.

Give him more flexibility

Although the relationship is stable, it will eventually become boring. There is a saying that goes "Men need respect and women need attention." The best way to respect a boy is to give him a flexible space so that he can breathe fresh air freely and show his skills. Boys are reluctant to be "bound" by love. They often call to ask about their whereabouts, filter their friends and hobbies, etc. It's like imprisoning them in a cage. Boys may feel tired of relationships from time to time and want to "escape". Smart girls should reduce their desire to control, let them go out and relax, and never treat boys as private property at any time or place.

Sometimes you need to be silent

Boys always like to show off to girls, you just need to keep silent. Because he just wants you to "admire" him, remember to give him an affirmative look from time to time. When a boy brags in front of you, it is often just a sign of lack of confidence. If you fail to listen, his self-confidence, which is difficult to build, will collapse. Many times, boys seem to have a lot on their mind but are unwilling to talk about it. The girls took the trouble to guess but often ended up complaining. In such situations, it's best not to speak. You should also remain silent appropriately when boys are not making any progress. It is rare for a boy to remain unmoved throughout his life; most boys will always have periodic mood swings and behavioral adjustments. Whipping a fast bull often backfires; boys don't always need encouragement.

Be more tolerant

When a boy is obsessed with trivial things that seem meaningless to you; when he has affairs with other women. Boys expect tolerance from girls, which is often their best motivation and a real, constant need. You have to allow him to play computer games day and night, or to have a hobby of doing puzzles, and let him spend the weekend playing cards and drinking tea with his buddies when he should have been shopping with you, because boys need to return to their youth from time to time, which is a reappearance of the psychological desire to escape from their mother's excessive love and care when they were teenagers. Boys naturally like to find and appreciate the beauty of the opposite sex. You should be tolerant of his normal interactions with other girls. Boys are not as fickle as you think. In fact, if he has a good appreciation ability, he will most likely love you well.

Moderate jealousy and envy

The sensitivity of love decreases, and they feel like an old married couple. A girl who doesn't know how to be jealous is as boring as a ball that doesn't bounce when you hit it. The right amount of jealousy and envy at the right time can prove your love and respect for him and satisfy a boy's vanity. Make him feel that you are easy to coax, and his jealousy will go away after a little coaxing. In this way, he will feel at ease with you. Boys want to know whether girls have a special liking for him, but they are not willing to say it directly due to their male self-esteem. You have to quietly make him feel that he is the only one in your heart. When using jealousy to maintain the sensitivity of love, be careful: don’t dwell on the same thing every time, and try to express it in a coquettish tone.

3. How to fall in love elegantly

For men today, being gentle and considerate to women is a rare virtue, and it is hard to say that it has nothing to do with those women who take the initiative. Men have bad qualities in their nature. The harder the bone, the more interested they are. The best and most effective way to trap them is to be close yet distant, so that he can never figure you out.

Love is like this, just like what Zhang Yu sings in his song, "Only when you love deeply can you let him do what he wants." Buddha also said that without love there is no foolishness, no worry, no fear. If you love too much, you will inevitably worry about gains and losses. It doesn't matter if you're moved. It's actually quite beautiful. The key is not to take action first. Whoever takes action first will lose everything.

Men really cannot be spoiled. Once spoiled, they will become bad, which is worse than a spoiled woman. A spoiled woman will at most become a little willful, while a spoiled man will easily lose his sense of responsibility, patience and courage to take the initiative in emotions and physical activities, and have an increasingly utilitarian and practical attitude towards love. He feels that women are like computers, and that if he already has one, it would be better to upgrade if he gets a better one in the future.

I still prefer those classical plots, where a man helps a woman put flowers in her hair and draws eyebrows for her, and they love each other and are romantic. It seems that now is the time for women to learn to be cruel. Many things have proved that if a woman is a little cruel, men will become gentle instead.

As the saying goes, "Women come from Earth, men come from outer space." There are many differences between men and women, which makes communication between the two sides full of obstacles. But that's the beauty of relationships, isn't it? Constantly getting to know each other and being attracted to each other. However, during the communication process, be careful not to cause trouble to the other party through your behavior.