Is it normal for junior high school girls to have no sexual needs?

Junior high school students are in the stage of physical development. Children in this period need to strengthen their nutrition. Adequate nutrition is beneficial to development. They should develop good living habits and insist on exercising to enhance their resistance. Males in junior high school will have their first nocturnal emission and females will have their first menstruation. I heard that some girls have no sexual needs in junior high school. Is it normal for junior high school girls to have no sexual needs? Let’s take a look at it next.

1. Is it normal for junior high school girls to have no sexual needs?

Junior high school students are in the development stage, and each person has different physical differences. Some have sexual needs, while others have little sexual needs. It is normal if they have no sexual needs, after all, they are young and are still developing.

2. How to deal with sexual impulse correctly - physiological aspects

(1) Consciously and strictly abide by the daily routine: pay special attention to going to bed and getting up on time, avoid excessive excitement before going to bed, such as not reading books and audio-visual products with pornographic, martial arts, thrilling and science fiction content, do not have wild thoughts in bed, wake up in the morning and get up on time. This can play a certain positive role in reducing sexual stimulation and controlling desire in adolescents.

(2) Pay attention to the cleanliness of the genitals: Pay attention to cleaning the genitals on a regular basis, such as cleaning the smegma of men and cleaning during menstruation for women, to avoid inflammation and irritation caused by the accumulation of dirt in the genitals.

(3) The sleeping position should be comfortable: The best position is to lie on your side with your lower limbs slightly bent and the muscles of all parts relaxed. It is best to lie on your right side and try not to lie on your back or stomach to reduce pressure and friction on the external genitalia, which is beneficial to controlling sexual excitement and impulses.

(4) Underwear should be loose, not too tight or too small, to avoid friction and irritation on the genitals.

(5) The bedding should not be too warm or too heavy; the water temperature should not be too high when bathing; and you should not eat too much for dinner.

(6) Participate in more beneficial cultural and sports activities to release your abundant energy.

3. How to deal with sexual impulse correctly - psychological aspects

(1) Having normal sexual intercourse with a partner of the opposite sex. Young men and women should have normal interactions naturally and frankly in their life, study and work, which is of great significance to the normalization of young people's psychological reactions to the opposite sex. The stricter the separation between young men and women, the more mysterious, nervous, and sensitive they feel about sexual issues. Young people who lack normal interactions with the opposite sex are prone to be overly sensitive to sex and even have wild thoughts once they come into contact with the opposite sex.

(2) To maintain the purity of boys and girls. The purity of boys and girls is one of the signs of noble character and is extremely precious. In daily life and study, when interacting with the opposite sex, they must keep a cool head, use reason to restrain their emotions, and never regard the sublimation of pure friendship as an emotional transfer. Cherish friendship, cherish the purity of boys and girls, and cultivate your own noble moral sentiments.

(3) Avoid having sex with vulgar people. Some young people are influenced by vulgar, low-level and obscene ideas, and have an improper lifestyle. Contact and communication with such young people can easily influence them and even lead them to crime. Therefore, if you make inappropriate choices in your friends, you should immediately terminate the relationship.

(4) Avoid sexual teasing and stimulation. Young people should read healthy books, magazines, movies, dramas, dances, etc. to cultivate their sentiments. Young people should not watch sexually provocative things, such as sensual movies, nude paintings, vulgar dances, etc. These unhealthy, sensual stimuli often have a provocative effect on the desires of some young people, making them unable to control their desires, thus indulging themselves and embarking on the road of crime.

(5) Cultivate a strong enterprising spirit. Middle school is the golden age for learning. It is a period of establishing a career and one should focus one's main energy on studying, be dedicated and work hard. Only a positive mental state can play a positive role in channeling the desires of young people.

(6) Cultivate interests and hobbies. In your spare time, actively participate in cultural and sports activities that are beneficial to your physical and mental health, concentrate your energy on studying hard, developing your interests and specialties, pursuing progress, diverting and diluting sexual fantasies, and thus diluting desires.

(7) Recognize your rights and responsibilities. After sexual maturity, people have the right to satisfy their desires, but while satisfying their desires, they must also take responsibility for their sexual behavior. Otherwise, it may cause harm to yourself, others or the next generation.

(8) Masturbation should be refrained. Moderate masturbation and sexual dreams can help relieve sexual impulses.

(9) Aversion therapy. You can put a rubber band on your wrist. When your study attention turns to sexual impulses, snap the rubber band, counting as you snap. The stronger the desire, the heavier the force of the snap, until the desire disappears and you regain your attention. Over time, as soon as desire arises, the cerebral cortex will immediately experience pain-like stimulation, reminding you that you should not have the desire now and should stop it quickly, thereby achieving the goal of eliminating this impulse as soon as possible.