Can I have sex 30 days after giving birth?

Having a baby is a big event for a family. For the health of the baby and the pregnant woman, many doctors recommend that sexual intercourse should be avoided during pregnancy. However, there are different opinions now. Some people believe that as long as the baby is healthy, then except for the first three months and the last three months, you can try some specific enhancements to your sexual life in other months. But for newlyweds, there is still a question: Can they have sex 30 days after a normal birth?

In case of normal delivery:

The doctor's advice is to wait about 2 months, because the uterus, endometrium and vaginal mucosa need to return to normal before having sex, otherwise it is easy to get some inflammation. But in fact, my lover and I tried to have sex before waiting for 2 months. My lover felt some pain during sex, so we didn't really finish it in the end, which left a certain psychological trauma on my lover. I feel a little regretful now, so I suggest that you still follow the doctor's advice, even for a longer time, so that your lover can fully recover and not affect his or her health.

In case of caesarean section:

It takes about 3 months. During these three months, in addition to the healing of the wound, the female reproductive organs have also basically recovered. Of course, it also depends on the recovery of the mother. The lover of a friend of mine recovered relatively quickly. After a caesarean section, they were able to have sex smoothly more than two months after the birth. So there is no completely consistent standard. But I believe the time given by the doctor is more scientific.

Things to note when having sex after giving birth:

Gentle movements:

Your lover is in the recovery period after giving birth, and all functions have not yet fully recovered, so men should be gentle, which is to love her as well as yourself.

2. Don’t force yourself:

My lover is still weak in every aspect after giving birth. I have not yet fully adapted to the external environment, including sexual intercourse. So respect your lover and give him/her some time.

3. Pay attention to hygiene:

Your lover is weak and weak after giving birth. If you don't pay attention to hygiene, it is very easy for your lover to get infected with inflammation. So please pay attention to hygiene, so that she will be good and you will be good too!