How to solve the problem of lack of sexual desire after having a baby

Many male friends find that their wives’ sexual desire has greatly decreased after giving birth. This makes many male friends feel particularly embarrassed. The original normal sexual life of the couple has been greatly damaged. Many male friends are also actively seeking effective ways to solve the problem. This may be because female friends have given more love to their children. It is very necessary to understand some solutions to the lack of sexual desire after giving birth.

1. It is inevitable that women become indifferent to sex right after giving birth! Because before, when there were no children, it was a world for two people, and there was only each other in their emotions. After having a child, the emotional expression changes, and the love for one person is divided between two people. It's natural to be cold towards your lover. Another aspect is that when children are young, many things will affect women's demands for sex. Taking care of children is a very tiring task and you will definitely feel mentally exhausted, especially when the children are young and you have to take care of them in the middle of the night. So at this stage, men should try their best to be considerate of their wives. Women have different physiological needs from men. Men can have sexual needs at any time, but only a few times, and the need disappears after sexual intercourse. Women's sexual needs are completely different. They only have sexual needs during their ovulation period in a month. In China, in most couples, the man is the one who takes the lead or guides the sexual desire, while the woman mostly cooperates. If one day a woman wears sexy clothes and makes seductive moves, the man should be aware that such opportunities are rare and should try hard to cooperate.

2. Married life is a matter between two people. When something goes wrong, the two should pay attention to communication and do a good job of foreplay.

The reasons for vaginal dryness caused by less female secretions may be being too busy at work, too much mental stress; or psychological pressure such as worrying about contraceptive failure and fear of pregnancy; or taking certain medications that cause a decrease in sexual desire and reduce vaginal secretions. If the caressing before sexual intercourse is not done enough, including kissing and insufficient stimulation of the woman's breasts or other sensitive parts with the hands, the woman may not be completely relaxed. In case of vaginal dryness, sexual intercourse should be stopped for a while, and both parties should relax. Then, the man can stimulate the woman's clitoris or nipples and guide the woman to have sexual fantasies. In addition to psychological treatment, drug treatment is also a good method, such as Qiankun Tiaojing Pills, which are very effective in treating vaginal dryness and increasing sexual excitement.

The above solutions to the lack of sexual desire after giving birth can greatly improve the sexual desire of our female friends. At the same time, our male friends must try their best to be considerate of our female friends and never force their wives. In the early stages, they can discuss with their wives and try to maintain a normal sex life.