7 Things Women Don't Need to Be Shy About When They Turn 30

Being thirty means maturity, wisdom and rationality; being thirty means that your title may change from "Miss" to "Ms."; being thirty means that you have to spend MONEY in beauty salons every month to resist the appearance of fine lines around your eyes. Thirty years old means a lot... Here, the editor has selected 7 things that thirty-year-old women don’t have to care about. Maybe you will gain some insights from them, which will make your future life easier and your mood more comfortable.

give up

The opposite of grasping is giving up. Choosing one opportunity means giving up all other possibilities. When new opportunities are presented, dare to give up everything you have already gained. This is not a failure, this is not giving up halfway, this is to seek greater room for development; or for nothing, just because you like to do it, because youth is the biggest opportunity. Only before the age of 30 will a person have the courage, capital and qualifications to do so.

Men in this world are sincere when they make promises to you, but they are also sincere when they betray you. When he no longer loves you, it is obvious that he has changed his mind, but he will only think that the qualities that attracted him to you in the first place are gone.

Broken Heart

It’s not that I don’t care, it’s that I can’t afford to care. What you fear most before the age of 30 is not what you already have, but your dreams. If love is just a process, then it is what people should experience at this age. If they want to bear the consequences, they may be more capable and qualified after the age of 30. In fact, there are a lot of things we have to do before we are thirty, but they are fleeting. Staying in the dried-up riverbed of love for too long is not in line with the rhythm of life at this age.

Fashion

Don't chase fashion. In theory, young people should be the most fashionable, but independent thinking and personal life are more important. In this materialistic society, the pursuit of fashion has actually become the pursuit of money. Today, fashion is synonymous with materialism and worldliness.

style

This is something for the petty bourgeoisie. The word "petty bourgeoisie" is popular again today, and the pursuit of style is their patent. The petty bourgeoisie say that having style requires four major elements: wisdom, literacy, self-confidence and money. Style is to understand "noble" as clothing, temperament, taste of hobbies and interior decoration. In other words, the uncouth people can only show vulgarity in their speech, while the "petit bourgeoisie" are already capable of vulgarizing their minds. The mainstream idea is not necessarily to be alternative. Alternative has become the mainstream idea of ​​young people. Today, being old-fashioned seems alternative. The key is that today's society is an era of creating ideas, not an era of sticking to old ideas.

evaluate

The worst sacrifice we should make is to change ourselves because of other people's opinions, because those who tell you what to do don't know what rules they follow. Never just follow the rules. The rules are still being created. Do everything based on your own judgment, even though this may be a little troublesome.

childish

Don't be afraid of people saying we are childish. This just shows that you are still young and full of energy. "Maturity" is a scary word and also a harmful word. Maturity and childishness are the biggest, most inappropriate, irresponsible and useless generalizations of a person. No one would ever say that those mediocre people are naive. If you don't believe it, one day when you are weighed down by life and become old and dejected, people will surely say that you have matured. Then you will know what "maturity" is.

Unsuitable

There is a line in a rock song: "This city has changed me, this city doesn't need me." Don't blindly adapt to the environment you live in, because it is very likely that the environment itself is no longer adapted to the development of this society.