Why do some people always feel distant from others? Is a person who feels distant good or bad?

Many people may find that there is a type of person in life who seems enthusiastic but makes people feel distant. In fact, there are very few people in life who can sit face to face with you without chatting but will not make you feel embarrassed inside. He is the kind of person who is always rational but also maintains kindness.

Why do people always feel distant when they are in contact with each other?

The essence of social interaction is mutual emotional exchange, not "saving all living beings"

Can we recall that when we are with our closest friends, do we talk more about praising each other? In fact, it is not true. Appropriate complaints can promote emotional exchanges, better understand each other, and enhance understanding.

Being nice to everyone may mean that your relationship with everyone is not very good

After all, human energy is limited. Being nice to everyone means that you cannot devote more energy to cultivating more close friends. The result is that you don’t have any particularly good friends.

People who are always nice make people feel stressed.

If you are at the lowest point in your life and you are talking to someone who agrees to everything you say but never makes any requests, you will feel like you have met a noble person in your life. But if not, it will make you feel like you have met someone you are not able to repay and there will be a psychological distance between you and him/her. How can you have a deep communication with him/her then?

Are people who have a sense of distance good or bad?

Some people are very well-educated and polite, which is due to their family education or the influence of school.

This is very good, after all, being polite in dealing with people is a fine tradition in China. So, you will find that others are easy to get along with.

Unless someone offends him, he will definitely treat others with courtesy. This is why he appears to have a good personality, is easy to get along with, and is very polite to others.

This kind of person is not uncommon, and it doesn't mean that you have to be rich to be like this. Some families may not have money, but they are well-educated, so their personalities are like this.

Of course, it doesn't mean that you are close to them.

What is a person with a sense of distance?

Why do people act polite but actually give people a sense of distance? We often encounter this kind of people in life, who appear polite on the surface, but keep a strong sense of distance from you, making it difficult for you to get close to them. You feel very cold and aloof. In fact, the higher the level of knowledge and culture, the higher the proportion of this phenomenon. In psychology, it is better to say that it is not a cover-up for inferiority, but because they are too self-aware!

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Not everyone is worth making friends with.

In fact, this sentence applies to everyone. It is enough for a person to have three or four good friends in his life. If all of them are close friends, it means that you have no real good friends.

This is inevitable, because of interests, direction, background, reality and other issues, it is impossible to have close friends with all people. Therefore, you will find that some people will keep a distance from you, which is normal, because they have long understood this truth.

I used to think that I could make close friends with everyone, until a friend stabbed me in the back. Then I realized that I was too young and that it was actually impossible.