Should I persist in a relationship that my parents disapprove of? What should I do if my parents disapprove of a relationship?

In real life, many boyfriends and girlfriends feel very good when they are together. However, once they meet their parents, many parents do not approve of your previous relationship and think that the other party is not a suitable marriage partner and are against your relationship. So should you fight for or give up a relationship that your parents oppose? Let's take a closer look!

Should I fight for or give up a relationship that my parents oppose?

If your parents object to your relationship, you can consider the following aspects:

1. Ask yourself: Do you really love the other person and want to be with him/her for life?

In fact, there is a very crucial point in this issue. You have to think clearly about whether you and your partner truly love each other and whether you are ready to stay together for the rest of your life.

If you feel that the other person is your true love in this life, then please cherish this love. There is a famous psychology book abroad called "Social Psychology", which has done relevant statistics and shows that half of the people in society will eventually divorce.

Nowadays, more and more people are not getting married. If you truly love each other, please cherish it.

2. Ask your parents: What are their concerns? How can you and your partner alleviate their concerns?

You can ask your parents what the fundamental reason is for not agreeing with you being together. Some may not want their children to marry too far away, while others may think that the other party is not good enough...

Then, try to discuss with your partner to see which of your parents' requirements can be met under the existing conditions, and which ones may require more time to achieve.

Chinese people pay attention to the matching of family backgrounds. Although this method is a bit vulgar, it has been popular for thousands of years and has its value. You can also check whether you and your partner are not quite matched.

Here, it is necessary to objectively point out that most parents love their children. There is a saying that goes like this: The path your parents choose for you and the suggestions they give you may not be the best, but they are likely to be the most conservative. Don't ask for great wealth and honor, just ask for a happy and peaceful life.

Is it right or wrong for parents to oppose a relationship?

Netizens’ opinions:

When it comes to love and marriage, parents’ disapproval or even strong opposition largely determines the direction of love and marriage. Netizens have mixed opinions on this.

Supporters

The previous generation has different ideas from your generation. The key lies in your wishes. Parents only care about what others say about them. What they care about most may not be what you can do or what you want.

Happiness depends on the joint efforts and management of two people.

Although many people would choose to give up, I hope you still insist! If you really love your child deeply, parents can't beat their children!

Opposition

Every couple who talks about their children will have some parents who object to it. The key is the degree of opposition. If your parents strongly object, you should reflect on why. Generally, parents will have no choice but to compromise for you.

When you have suffered after marriage, you will find out how accurate your parents' views are. So don't break off relations with your parents for the sake of so-called love. When you suffer, it is always your parents who feel sorry for you.

If you really get married, the man will treat you well at first. When you quarrel after marriage, he will definitely say: Your family didn't agree at the beginning, but you insisted on coming. If it is his parents who are against it, then you should be prepared to fight when you get married! The husband will definitely side with his parents.

It’s better to break up as soon as possible. A marriage without the blessing of family members is imperfect and will not last long. Be careful!

How to deal with parental disapproval

Marriage is probably the most important thing in a person's life. Take your time and don't rush it! There are two extremes at the two ends of a marriage: happiness or unhappiness.

When a marriage is opposed by parents, if you love each other, you should do your utmost to narrow the distance between you and your partner; if you love each other, you should do your utmost to resolve the conflicts between your parents and yourself or the other party, rather than resolutely severing family ties because of love.