Is it normal for a virgin not to bleed the first time?

Many friends stubbornly believe in a fact, that is, a virgin will see red, or bleed, when having sex for the first time. Many male friends also have a virgin complex to a certain extent. They think that non-virginity does not mean purity. This makes many female friends protect their "hymen" very well, and they will feel uneasy once they lose it. But in fact, many traditional concepts here are wrong, because a virgin will definitely bleed when having sex for the first time, and there is no scientific basis for this. Today we will popularize some information about virgin bleeding.

According to a survey, 60% of Chinese girls do not bleed during their first night, and in the Netherlands the figure is as high as 80%. Let’s talk about the hymen now.

In men's eyes, it is more than just a film

In the eyes of men, the hymen is more than just a membrane. In the minds of men, the real idea is this: virginity loses value after it is broken! If there is no bleeding the first time, she is definitely not a virgin! You must find a virgin when looking for a girlfriend! Non-virgins are no longer pure physically, and there is no way they can give us virgins pure love!

Women's doubts about hymen

Women also have doubts about the hymen. It was clearly my first time, so why wasn’t I bleeding? My intercourse was broken at 17, so will my future husband dislike me? Do these thoughts sound familiar to you? Perhaps you have a virgin complex to some extent, but you may not know much about that layer of membrane.

What is the hymen?

It is actually not a layer of membrane, but a "belt" or "petal" structure formed by the migration of the vaginal mucosa at the vaginal opening. Its edge can be very smooth or have many wrinkles. It is soft and elastic. Even the gynecologist cannot tell which one is a virgin.

Brainstorming Moment

It's just like your lips. When your finger tries to enter your lips, it is easy to enter unless the muscles next to your lips contract and block your finger. Just imagine, how could there be heavy bleeding with such a soft band-like barrier that only exists at the vaginal opening? So, swelling and pain are inevitable the first time, but it is an exaggeration to say that blood will flow like a river.

The TV dramas of those years deceived us

Research has found that 60% of girls in China have painless and bleeding-free intercourse, while in the Netherlands the figure is as high as 80%! The so-called pain and difficulty in sex are not actually caused by the hymen! It is caused by the spasm and contraction of the pelvic floor muscles caused by the girl's tension.

The so-called bleeding on the first night is actually an effect deliberately exaggerated in TV dramas to embellish the situation. Unless the female protagonist has her period, even if there is bleeding, it will be sporadic.

After knowing the truth about the membrane, will you still be obsessed with it?

Misconception: Many girls did not bleed during their first time, and were told that it might be because their hymen had been damaged by previous exercise, which caused them great psychological pressure.

Correct answer: In fact, no matter how the movement and friction occur, the vagina is closed, and it is impossible to damage the hymen during the process. There is nothing wrong if you don't bleed the first time, it means you are normal.

The editor once met a couple like this. They were first love and had a good relationship. However, because the girl did not see blood during their first intercourse, the boy mistakenly thought that she was not a virgin and cheated on him. This caused a psychological gap between the two of them, and they often quarreled, which eventually led to their breakup. In fact, there are many such things happening around us. So after reading this article, please change your wrong ideas and harvest beautiful love.