80% of women cheat physically, shocking

In most people's impressions, cheating is more common among men, but from the emotional analysis in recent years, we have to pay attention to the fact that the number of women cheating is increasing. Why is this? Is it because women's emotions are not satisfied, or is it because of various family pressures that make them want to escape from constraints? Below, we analyze the love book from a psychological perspective and explore the stories behind women's emotions! >>> 12 parts of women can stimulate men's "interest"

Psychological Analysis

In real life, women are just like men and have the motive to cheat all the time. You may not accept it, but whether you are willing to admit it or not, in a survey, as many as 85.6% of women said that they had cheated before. What is even more shocking is that 83.2% of them cheated physically, while only 16.8% of women chose to cheat mentally.

This result is indeed somewhat hard to believe. For most men, they are unwilling or afraid to admit that their wives can also develop extramarital affairs like the two heroines in "Hirugao", bursting out with obsession and passion that their "husbands" are unwilling to imagine.

The inherent thinking is that women tend to be more inclined to spiritual expression, and that women love first and then have sex. However, the fact that more than 80% of women's infidelity is physical is enough to show that today's women's yearning for free love and their physical sacrifice are epoch-making.

Of course, this also reveals that there are too many defects and dissatisfactions in existing family life.

As a result, the needs of these women are often ignored, but the desire to be loved is stirring again, so they hope to regain the feeling of the initial love and the emotions they long for. So, for them, cheating is a pursuit of emotion, which seems reasonable.

This is an extremely dangerous signal in any case. Although there are many reasons for cheating, the fact that more than 80% of women cheat, and almost all women cheat physically, has completely overturned people's views.

It is foreseeable that people will be more sensitive and less tolerant to the topic of cheating in the future, and the consequences will be more unpredictable.

First, people have always believed that women are different from men.

Most women cheat because of emotional reasons. If they meet a good man outside of marriage, they will still be tempted. They will not choose to betray their family just because of simple physical needs. From this point of view, women's cheating is more complicated than men's cheating.

In a word, women are rational, and it is difficult for them to separate passion and love like men. Passion without love will not happen. But this survey completely overturned people's habitual mindset.

Second, people have always mistakenly believed that women cheat mainly with their minds, and rarely with their bodies.

People always think that men are animals who think with their lower body, and that men cheat basically for the purpose of obtaining physical pleasure, so men's cheating is all physical cheating.

On the contrary, women pursue the unity of passion and love, so on the one hand, they rarely cheat. On the other hand, even if women cheat, most of them are on the spiritual level. Therefore, in many families, when a woman is discovered to have cheated, it is easier for her to return to the family, but once a man is discovered to have cheated, he will basically pack up and leave. Now it seems that this was a huge misunderstanding.

We cannot expect every family to be solid and every couple to have chosen the right partner. Emotional infidelity is an eternal topic, and maintaining family and marital stability is a lifelong effort for many people.

This survey has prompted us to look at the issue of cheating between men and women more objectively, comprehensively and fairly, and has also prompted us to find a new balance, which is more psychological...

We must not only have the courage to face this problem, but also find new ways to maintain marriage and family. The family is the cell of society. Only when the cells are healthy can society be stable. This should be the greatest social significance of studying the issue of infidelity.

Woman emotions

In their love life, women often have mood swings because of trivial things. In fact, this is a manifestation of lack of security. Everyone has certain fantasies about their love, but when it comes to reality, if there is a big gap between fantasy and reality, then there is no need to say much about the disappointment in one's heart. So, what are the emotional levels of women?

1. Unrequited Love

Unrequited love is painful and meaningless. If the other person is not on the same wavelength as you, all your complaints and grievances will be ridiculous in the eyes of the other person. But if you are willing to bury this feeling deep in your heart and savor it slowly alone, it can be brewed into fine wine.

2. Love at first sight

This is the most beautiful way to fall in love, but also the way that most shakes your faith in love. Because when the magic wears off, you'll find the prince has turned into a frog. Did you fall in love with a frog? You felt so stupid.

3. Chasing

You can completely rely on your own initiative to fight for love, and the joy of conquest is incomparable (that's why men never get tired of it). It’s just that pursuing someone requires a lot of skills. When you’re just starting out, you can only bombard them with reckless tactics. After you’ve become a little more mature, you need to be more strategic. Only when you see a spark in the other person’s eyes, can you move on to the next step. Good hunters hunt slowly.

4. Playboy

There are some men you absolutely should not have, no matter how handsome he is, how elegant his manners are, or how charming his demeanor is, he will be a disaster if you bring him home, making you sad and cry, and bringing you complete failure.

5. Rich men

A man’s money actually has little to do with you: when he loves you, he tells you that you can spend his money as you like (in fact, he has a bottom line in his heart, and he won’t allow you to spend too much); when he is no longer interested in you, his money has even less to do with you.

6. Married man

Men also have a strong sense of responsibility, but this sense of responsibility makes you very annoyed because it is not directed at you.

7. Using sex for profit

This relationship is a recipe for disaster. When your original goal is achieved and the other party is still enthusiastic, how do you end it?

8. His betrayal

No matter how honest and decent a man may seem, he is a traitor at heart. He may ignore what he said and avoid the person he loved. Knowing this, next time you are ready to devote yourself to someone, think twice: Can you bear the consequences of his betrayal?

9. My Empathy

You must keep a clear head when making a promise. Can you guarantee that your feelings will not deteriorate? If not, don't put love and destiny in the same basket easily. At least doing so will be responsible to him.

10. sex

How important is sex to women? When it is not there, it seems very important; when it is only there, it is as light as a feather. If a woman falls in love with a man because of sex, she will only despise him in the end. This is very different from men. If it's just for sex, you shouldn't give up too much.

Love Guide

Men are good at many things: but saying "break up" makes every man feel embarrassed. So, cunning men always let women say this word.

Usually, he has broken up with you mentally before three months, but he is still in contact with you physically.

Poor woman, why would you waste these three months on a man who has already changed his mind? So, let's carefully study the following symptoms to see if he has decided to dump you!

Symptom 1: He is cold to your family and friends and is unwilling to spend any time and energy on them

A woman once told about the trick her ex-boyfriend used to break up with her: "When we were in love, he came to my house to visit my parents. My mother casually mentioned the book she liked. As a result, the second time he came to my house, he not only bought those books, but also recited the contents of the books by heart! After some time, he had decided to break up with me. That time, when he came to my house, my mother enthusiastically wanted to lend him some books. As a result, he said, oh, I never liked reading, TV is more suitable for me! "Three months later, they broke up.

Symptom 2: There is no place for you in his future

Linda is a victim of this kind of breakup. After dating for a while, her boyfriend suddenly talked to her about his ambition to develop Africa. At this time, Linda's career in China was also on the rise. Although affected by her impassioned boyfriend, after calming down, Linda realized that he had not considered her at all in his future. Two months later, they parted peacefully.

Symptom 3: He is so cold

Many men believe that actions speak louder than words. Think carefully, did he respond to your warm hug? Or did he make excuses like, "Look, this is in public, how inappropriate it is?" And he didn't care about this at all before. Does he respond to your affectionate gaze? Or does he look away? If his attitude toward you is the latter, it means that he is ready to move out of your love hotel!

Symptom 4: He always comes and goes in a hurry

Does he come home on time every night? If he tells you several times a month that he has worked overtime or gone out drinking with friends, you don't need to pursue it; but if he always gets into bed after you have fallen asleep and doesn't show any affection, then there is a big problem. Or maybe he still has sex with you but is absent-minded, or after the sex, he is no longer gentle and considerate, and immediately leaves you to send emails? These are all signs of a breakup!

Symptom 5: He can’t see your beautiful changes

Do you remember that in the past, when you changed the color of your lipstick, he was always the first to notice and give you compliments? But now, whether you change your hairstyle, perfume, or wear sexy lingerie, he turns a blind eye? If this is the case, then instead of maintaining a forced relationship, it is better to break up as soon as possible.

Conclusion: After reading the above article, I hope you can look at your love correctly and reasonably. It is good to be full of expectations for love, but this "expectation" should be controlled within a reasonable range. Don't be unrealistic in your feelings and take everything for granted. Only by remaining unchanged in the face of ever-changing situations can you better manage your love.