Why do women love to cross their legs?

Leg-claw syndrome

Some little girls will show a strange phenomenon. When just falling asleep at night or just waking up in the morning, he would often suddenly clamp his legs together tightly and rub them repeatedly. At the same time, his eyes would open wide, staring straight at one place, his cheeks would turn red, he would not move, make a sound, and sweat all over. It will stop on its own after about 2-3 minutes, but may occur again after one or two days.

Psychology calls this phenomenon "leg clamp syndrome" in girls. It can occur in infants around 1-2 years old, but is most common in girls aged 1-3 years old. Parents will be very worried: If a child is interested in sex at such a young age and even masturbates, what should they do?

The legs-clenching of childhood and the sexual desire of adults are two different things

Children can receive sexual information or stimulation from the outside world, but cannot understand or realize it deep in their hearts. The functions of sexual organs exist latently in childhood. If children occasionally get sexual stimulation in daily activities, such as riding on a stool and rubbing back and forth, this function of the sexual organs can sometimes be induced, and they will rub like this often.

The causes of "leg pinching syndrome" are quite repetitive and are usually related to local irritation and psychological factors.

Eczema, inflammation, pinworms, damp diapers or tight pants in the vulva can all cause local itching of the vulva, which then leads to friction and develops into a habitual action. Some children are not emotionally satisfied due to tense family atmosphere, lack of maternal love, or monotonous life, lack of toys and playmates, so they have to seek catharsis through self-stimulation, which leads to the leg-clenching action. In addition, older children may also engage in leg-clenching behavior by seeing pornographic pictures on the Internet or in books and magazines.

If you find your child has "leg-clip syndrome", you should consult a child psychologist as soon as possible.

But the most important thing is the attitude of parents towards their children. Anxiety or tension will be "infected" to the children; scolding, punishment, or forced stopping and intimidation will make the children feel guilty, which will hurt the children psychologically and even affect their sexual psychology when they grow up.

Parents should pay more attention to their children

When she is about to have an attack or is having an attack, pretend nothing has happened and pick her up and walk around, or give her toys to play with and tease her. In short, try every way to divert the child's attention. You can also talk to your child naturally when she crosses her legs, gently separate her legs with your hands, and divert her attention to stop this behavior.

Children should develop good living habits

Do not go to bed too early at night. It is best to let the child feel tired before going to bed. Do not stay in bed in the morning and get up as soon as you wake up to reduce the chance of an attack. Keep your child's perineum clean and remove all kinds of adverse stimuli. If your child has pinworms, eczema or other diseases, seek medical treatment immediately. We also need to create a good family environment for children, full of warmth and love.