Why do young women often get tired of married life after giving birth?

Usually, women's body and mind have not fully recovered after giving birth, or they have diverted some of their energy and interest to caring for and raising the baby. Even if they have resumed normal sex life, their interest in sex life will decrease and the number of sexual intercourse will decrease significantly. This is a normal phenomenon. There are also a small number of women who develop fear and indifference towards sexual life due to poor healing of perineal wounds caused by childbirth, or gynecological diseases after childbirth that cause discomfort and pain during sexual intercourse. If you encounter this situation, you should go to the hospital for examination and cure the relevant injuries in time.

Husbands should take the initiative to do housework so that their wives can get enough rest.

In addition, as a husband, you should know that your wife consumes a lot of physical energy during the childbirth process, and must take care of and feed the child after delivery. She is often physically and mentally exhausted, and her interest in sex life is inevitably reduced. You should fully understand this. On the one hand, one should appropriately restrain one's desires and take the initiative to reduce the frequency of sexual intercourse, so as to prevent too frequent sexual intercourse from making the wife bored or disgusted, casting a shadow on future sex life; on the other hand, the husband should take the initiative to do housework so that the wife's body can get sufficient rest, especially ensuring that the wife has enough sleep, has vigorous energy and abundant physical strength, so that she will have good sexual desire and sexual response.

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After his wife gives birth, the husband should learn to be "more gentle" and focus on the quality of sex life rather than the quantity. Before sexual intercourse, all household chores should be arranged, including feeding the children, so that the wife can concentrate; during sexual intercourse, it is necessary to strengthen the guidance of the wife, stimulate the wife's erogenous zones more, and pay attention to caressing and tenderness to arouse the wife's strong desire.