Girls mature quietly like this

It is often said abroad that "girls develop puberty at the age of eight and boys at the age of nine." But in China, this is considered precocious puberty. Seek immediate treatment. Chinese girls generally begin puberty at the age of 11 or 12, while boys generally begin to develop at the age of 13 or 14. The author is a man and started to grow at the age of twelve, which can be said to be relatively early. It may be because I ate too much chicken when I was a child, so I stopped growing at the age of fourteen. It has something to do with my premature development. But I'm still normal. Many of the girls I have met were first born after the age of ten.

But here's the problem

Oriental girls do not develop as early as Western girls, but it is definitely not as late as many people think! Many men think that a girl's pubic hair has not grown fully at the age of sixteen, simply because they are boys who develop late and have never seen the development process of girls.

A few decades ago, many girls in China did not start menstruating until the age of sixteen, but this is rare today. Today, the average age of menarche for Chinese girls is around thirteen years old. But quite a number of them came when they were eleven or twelve years old. This is not because we are precocious, but because people in the past had delayed development due to malnutrition.

Now let me briefly talk about the development process of girls:

Between the ages of ten and eleven, girls' height and weight grow rapidly. So at this time girls often outnumber boys. By this time, the breasts have already changed. The nipples will be slightly raised. The nipples will change color slightly and pubic hair will begin to grow. Of course it's still very sparse. After the age of eleven or twelve, the breasts will begin to swell. At this time, the pubic hair is already very thick, but not as long as that of adults and is not distributed over a wide area. The external genitalia will also begin to change. Some people think that girls' labia will become exposed when they grow up, but in fact it varies from person to person. When we look at photos online, we find that some people still have retracted labia at the age of eighteen. Some people's hidden lips are exposed at 9 o'clock, but in fact it is just a difference in personal body shape. Whether the labia are exposed or not is not closely related to puberty development. It is even possible that the labia majora develop outside during childhood and then "shrink" back during puberty due to changes in body shape. Generally speaking, a girl's vulva will not have any obvious changes in appearance after entering puberty. Just like a boy's penis and a man's penis, they are just different in size, not much different. Of course, there will be some changes in the color and proportions of the vulva, but this also varies from person to person.

But one thing is true, that is, when a girl is born, her vulva is just a slit. As for why some people's labia become larger and some people's clitoris become larger, these changes are very complicated and do not necessarily start during puberty. Just like our noses and eyes are of different sizes.

From the outside

Menstruation occurs when the breasts and genitals develop to a certain extent. To put it more deeply, a woman's menstruation marks the beginning of the maturation of her internal reproductive organs, such as the ovaries and uterus. This means that she can have children, but of course this will have to wait until her external reproductive organs develop to a certain extent. So menstruation must occur some time after puberty. Generally, girls begin to enter the developmental stage at the age of ten to eleven, and girls at the age of eleven or twelve will show obvious secondary sexual characteristics in appearance. Girls usually start menstruating when they are twelve or thirteen years old. In rural areas, it's usually later, [Note: many ethnic minorities develop earlier] around fourteen or fifteen years old. Unlike boys, girls develop early, but develop slowly and end early, while boys develop late, develop quickly and end late. So boys have much more room for development than girls. It is precisely because of this difference in boys' delayed development that many men who have never seen a girl who has just given birth will have thoughts like "it's not good for a girl to not have pubic hair at the age of sixteen." In fact, most boys have full pubic hair by the age of sixteen.

Now let's talk about the stage of menarche at the age of twelve or thirteen.

Girls reach their peak physical development with menarche, and then decline rapidly at age fourteen. In other words, the girl has started to go downhill. At this time, many boys are just beginning to develop. hey-hey. Girls' bodies start to resemble those of adults from the age of fourteen. After the age of fourteen, the growth of girls' height and weight begins to slow down, but their internal reproductive organs continue to improve. And subcutaneous fat continues to increase. Only at this time do girls begin to look more "feminine" in appearance. Gradually developing to the age of sixteen, generally sixteen-year-old girls' breasts are close to or even larger than those of adults! Pubic hair has also taken shape. After the age of sixteen, many girls' development basically stops. But there will be some obvious changes in body shape by the age of eighteen. By the way, boys are also very mature at the age of sixteen. Although boys develop later, they develop quickly. And boys' development will continue for a long time. It's great for a 16-year-old girl to grow another two centimeters, and many 16-year-old boys can grow a lot taller!

Please note: Girls should give themselves 5 minutes before sex

Seeing this, we can understand. It is unscientific to read in many pornographic articles on the Internet that “…a sixteen-year-old girl…her pubic hair has not yet grown fully,…her breasts are slightly raised…”

Of course, there are still some people in China who develop late due to nutritional and genetic reasons. Especially in rural areas, there are still many girls who start menstruating at the age of sixteen.

There is something special to say here

Some girls may still have flat breasts when they are 20 years old. Some people don't even have a few pubic hairs in their entire life. This is possible, but it is not necessarily the result of poor development. Most of the time, it is just because of genetic, nutritional and other factors that the child develops differently from others. They generally look immature in appearance but their internal reproductive organs are mature. Generally speaking, a woman's breasts will become fuller soon after marriage as long as she has adequate nutrition, and the absence of pubic hair does not affect sex and fertility. Of course, this is only a minority of people. If you have not personally dealt with this type of girls, it is best not to comment on this type of girls casually.