At what age are women most likely to be unfaithful?

Have you noticed that the most dangerous stage for emotional infidelity is not between 20 and 30 years old, not between 50 and 60 years old, and certainly not after 60 years old? Of course, there are infidelity phenomena at these age stages, but they are not the most frequent stages. The most frequent stages for infidelity among men and women are mainly concentrated between the ages of 30 and 50, especially around 40 years old, which is the stage with the highest probability of infidelity among men and women.

Why are men and women most likely to have emotional infidelity around the age of 40? This is a phenomenon worthy of study. Through investigation and analysis of friends around him, Ding Ding summarized the following six reasons, which are worth considering.

First, around the age of 40 is the golden period of one’s career.

No matter rich or poor, no matter being an official or doing business, 40 years old is undoubtedly the peak period of life. At this stage, officials are at the peak of their careers or are entering the peak, businessmen are at their most proud or are entering the most proud stage, and even farmers and workers are at the proudest period of their lives. Men and women in this period are in the golden period of their careers, including money, status, and body. It is for this reason that the envy, admiration, and worship of others for them have reached a peak. For the so-called mature men and women, 40 years old is undoubtedly the best time. However, in this period, they cannot evaluate themselves objectively, and often cannot control their emotions, and intentionally or unintentionally let their bodies and emotions cross the bottom line.

Second, around the age of 40 is the age when the body needs freshness to arouse sexual excitement.

The so-called seven-year itch and ten-year itch is actually the stage when the relationship between husband and wife returns to normal. This stage occurs after the age of 30. As the mutual novelty has faded, the attraction between each other is not as great as before, and the bodies are still young, but the cooperation between each other has become perfunctory or even powerless. The fundamental reason is that they are too familiar with each other, cannot cheer up, and need a fresh feeling. As for the wives, due to their husbands' neglect or infidelity, they cheat on their husbands out of need or revenge.

Third, couples around 40 years old tend to be apart more than together.

Men and women in their 40s are at the peak of their careers, which is the best stage for realizing their life values. Because they are busy with their careers and traveling all day long, couples are naturally separated from each other more often than they are together. During the long period of separation, due to the needs of career and business, they inevitably have to go through many places of feasting and drinking. Under the temptation of the outside world, the persuasion of friends, and the needs of work, they actively or passively cross the emotional boundaries.

Fourth, men and women around the age of 40 are at the time when they have the most conflicts.

Men and women in their 40s are at their most frequent period of family conflicts. For example, both parents are around 70 years old, which is a period of high incidence of diseases and requires support and attention, while children are in the growth, rebellious and highly stressful learning period and require high attention. This period is also the time when family expenses are the highest. Houses, medical care, education and especially social comparisons all require a lot of expenses to maintain, and a lot of energy. If you are not careful, family conflicts will become out of control, especially conflicts between husband and wife often lead to divorce. However, 40 years old is the most prosperous period of one's career. Various relationships and struggles must be handled well, each of which is a headache. With all kinds of contradictions intertwined, finding temporary happiness to avoid conflicts may be the best solution.

Fifth, around the age of 40 is the period when the appearance difference between men and women is the greatest.

The appearance of men around 40 is often not much different from that of 10 years ago, but women in their 40s are often very different from those in their 30s due to factors such as having children and taking care of the family. So there is a saying that goes: a 40-year-old man is a flower, but a 40-year-old woman is like tofu dregs. The age difference between ordinary couples is not very big, and men at this time are often absent-minded about the "yellow-faced woman" at home, and even have no sexual interest in her. Coupled with the temptation from the outside world, it becomes a common psychological suggestion for men to cheat at this stage. Nowadays, women in their 40s are no pushovers. Although they may become "yellow-faced women" in the eyes of their husbands, due to the emergence of beauty technology and the need of men to seek excitement and change their tastes, coupled with women's natural ability to seduce men, especially when women are like wolves at 30 and tigers at 40, which is the time when they need it most, cheating can be completed in an instant.

Sixth, around the age of 40 is when the social status difference between husband and wife is the greatest.

When they get married, the difference in social status between husband and wife may not be very big, but after more than ten years of struggle, at this stage, the differences in positions, earning abilities and opportunities between husband and wife have become huge differences. Some have become rich people, some have become high-ranking officials, while the other party has not improved at all, or even worse. Of course, there are also couples who are equally successful, but such couples are cruel in their own ways. In this way, due to the changes in status relationship between husband and wife, cracks have also appeared in their relationship. In particular, some men and women around 40 years old can have their current status, which is mainly obtained by unspoken rules. Especially in an era when unspoken rules are rampant, due to the needs of their own careers, the vows made between husband and wife have long been thrown out of their minds. Not divorcing is already giving each other a lot of face. If they want to stop it, openly keeping mistresses, third parties, and lovers has become the most common phenomenon among men and women in their 40s.

Confucius's summary of "no doubts at 40" is actually no longer suitable for today's human beings. Men and women at 40 are actually in a stage of confusion. More and more people are actually failing in this so-called "no doubts" period at 40. As human life expectancy increases and retirement age is postponed, perhaps the age of forty will be postponed to after 60 years old. Men and women, in fact, it is only a small matter as big as the palm of your hand, but it is always tangled and confusing, and it has been confusing human beings until now.