My husband said I was loose down there

The vast majority of female friends, if they choose to give birth naturally, will experience vaginal relaxation after giving birth. Some female friends, even if they have a caesarean section, will also experience vaginal relaxation as they age and increase the frequency of sexual life. This situation makes some female friends feel very troubled, and some women even say that their husbands say that they are loose down there, and now they will inexplicably develop a sense of inferiority. So what should I do if my husband says that I am loose down there?

One of the ways to improve vaginal relaxation: vaginal tightening surgery

The so-called vaginal tightening surgery is a type of cosmetic surgery for the private parts. Through the surgery, the muscles in the vagina can restore their strength, thereby making the woman's vagina more layered and elastic. Today's cosmetic surgery methods are already very developed. Many female friends have used this method to restore their vaginas to be as firm as those of beautiful girls.

The second way to improve vaginal relaxation: do vaginal tightening exercises

Doing some vaginal tightening exercises after waking up every day and before going to bed can restore the elasticity and firmness of the vagina. The correct way to do vaginal tightening exercises is to lie flat on the bed, and then vigorously contract the private parts and anus. Through such exercises, the muscles in the vagina can slowly restore their strength. If you persist in doing vaginal tightening exercises for half an hour every morning and evening, the vagina can be restored to firmness within a few months.

The third way to improve vaginal relaxation: using vaginal tightening balls

The vaginal tightening ball is a device that can assist in vaginal tightening exercises. Using this type of device for vaginal tightening exercises is faster and more effective than not using any auxiliary equipment to do vaginal tightening exercises. However, when using the vaginal tightening ball, you must remember to clean and disinfect the vaginal tightening ball every day to avoid gynecological diseases or cross-infection of bacteria.

What diseases can vaginal relaxation cause?

1. Infection

Cause: There are many reasons for postoperative infection, such as insufficient preparation before surgery and contaminated toilet environment after surgery. The medical dressing was not changed immediately. Fever, cold, fever, decreased immunity after surgery, inability to effectively use antibiotics, etc.

Preventive measures: If the body temperature is still above 38°C 3 days after surgery, the patient feels throbbing pain in the wound, and the female secretions have a strong odor, it should be taken seriously, the private medical dressing should be replaced immediately, the wound should be cleaned, and local bacterial culture and drug sensitivity tests can be done.

2. Abdominal distension

Cause: After surgery, the patient rests in bed for a long time and uses drugs to control bowel movements, which slows down intestinal motility or causes the patient to swallow a lot of gas due to pain from the wound.

Preventive measures: Analgesics should be given immediately after the operation, and the patient should be advised to eat less fermented foods and flatulent foods, such as baby formula, milk, glycogen, etc., especially before the patient has anal gas discharge.

3. Bleeding

Cause: Incomplete blood circulation during vaginal plastic surgery, rough dressing change posture after surgery, and careless touching of the vaginal wound.

Preventive measures: If bleeding is found, the medical dressing should be changed immediately and the doctor should be informed for treatment, because bleeding may cause abscess, which may affect the vitality of the regenerated vaginal mucosal tissue and easily lead to infection. For those with vaginal relaxation that causes slight bleeding, the bleeding can be relieved after compression to activate blood circulation.

4. The wound opens

Causes: Too much tissue removed resulting in excessive wound support, poor wound edge alignment, too early significant movement, postoperative constipation and wound infection caused by treatment of vaginal relaxation, etc.

Preventive measures: Re-suture immediately, strengthen anti-infection treatment, and rest in bed.

5. Damage to internal organs

Cause: The patient is not clear about the anatomical levels, the surgical treatment is roughly controlled, too much tissue is clamped, the sutures are too deep, etc., causing damage to the bladder, duodenum or urethra.

Preventive measures: If damage is found during the operation, immediate surgical repair is required. If damage is found some time after the operation, elective repair is required.

6. Narrow vagina

Causes: Improper surgical design, excessive mucosal removal, or wound muscle atrophy after infection.

Preventive measures: For the treatment of vaginal relaxation, vaginal dilators can be used to dilate the vagina in mild cases, and vaginal release or skin grafting surgery can be performed in moderate to severe cases.