Postpartum sexual coldness in women

Many women are not very interested in sex after giving birth, and even repeatedly refuse to have sex. This is the main manifestation of postpartum sexual apathy. So what is the reason for postpartum sexual apathy? Experts believe that this has both physiological and psychological reasons.

1. Having sex too early after giving birth. After giving birth, women's sexual desire will be inhibited to a certain extent due to the changes in the whole body and urinary system caused by pregnancy and childbirth. Generally, it will take two months after giving birth for the internal organs of the human body to recover and sexual desire to gradually return to the state before pregnancy. If you start having sex too early after giving birth, especially some husbands "do it themselves" without their wives' consent. This will not only affect the wife's physical recovery, but also cause her to resist and be bored with sexual life, thus developing into sexual indifference.

2. Excessive fatigue. After a woman becomes pregnant, if she cannot get help from her husband and family members when taking care of her children, she will expend too much energy and vitality, which will naturally affect her sexual desire.

3. Influence of urinary system diseases. Some women have scars on their private parts and vagina during childbirth, which reduces the sexual sensitivity of their private parts or makes their vagina narrow, causing pain during sexual intercourse; some women experience discomfort during sexual intercourse due to complications such as endometriosis or chronic pelvic inflammatory disease after childbirth; some women suffer from gynecological diseases such as candida and candidal vaginitis, which can suppress their sexual desire to varying degrees.

4. Psychological problems. Studies have found that during the postpartum recovery phase, women will immediately begin to psychologically resist sexual intercourse because they are worried that sexual intercourse will cause wound infection; some women did not take effective contraceptive measures after giving birth, and are always afraid to have sex for fear of pregnancy; many women are very dissatisfied with the changes in their body after giving birth, and are worried that their husbands will not love their bodies as much as before; in addition, after giving birth, women generally devote all their energy to the parenting process, and even when communicating with their husbands, the topic revolves around the children, thus losing the sexy requirements that women must have, which will also lead to a decrease in sexual desire.