Why does it hurt when you have sex for the first time?

A girl's first time is very precious. Many women are deeply impressed by their first time. This is mainly because the first time is not only important, but also very painful and bleeding. The pain and bleeding are mainly caused by the rupture of the hymen. However, everyone's nerve distribution is different, so the feeling of pain will also be different. But how painful is the first time in reality, and why does it hurt?

1. How painful is the first time?

In fact, everyone's first pain feeling is different, because everyone's nerve distribution is different, the intensity and strength of the partner's entry will affect the girl's reaction, and the toughness and strength of the girl's hymen will also affect the pain, but generally speaking, except for the significant pain at the moment when the hymen ruptures, it will not be so painful afterwards. In short, most girls can bear the pain during their first sexual intercourse. There are also girls who do not feel pain or bleeding during their first sexual intercourse.

2. Causes of pain

Generally speaking, it is more painful for women. The virgin area has always been closed. Now it is suddenly and violently invaded by a huge foreign object, and is rubbed in and out repeatedly, which must be very painful. Normally, blood will flow, but the amount will not be much. It should be similar to a woman's menstrual period. Don't be afraid, this is normal. Men feel pain because their penises are very sensitive and fragile, so they kill one thousand enemies but lose eight hundred of their own, and have to survive in the cracks, and have to rub repeatedly hundreds or thousands of times. It is normal to feel a little pain, so it is best to move gently and slowly.

3. Methods for improvement

When having sex for the first time, men should try to be gentle with women. When touching her genitals and sensitive areas, their movements should be as slow as possible to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. After fully arousing the woman's sexual desire, that is, when her lower body is very wet, men should wait for an opportunity to enter. Do not hesitate. After entering, do not perform piston movements immediately. Instead, let the girl adapt and the pain be relieved before moving slowly. After that, the girl's pain will be replaced by pleasure.

4. When will you have sex next time?

Women usually feel pain for two or three days and then return to normal. They may feel a little uncomfortable, but they will naturally adapt to it over time. If the situation is serious, you can buy anti-inflammatory drugs. The next time you have sex, it is best to wait until the girl's lower body recovers, usually the third day is enough. It is better to wait then. There is a long time to go. Don't be anxious. Be patient and everything will be calm. Remember, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. During the period when you cannot have sex, both parties can watch sex videos together to enrich their sex skills and learn some sex common sense to lay a good foundation for future sex life and avoid unexpected situations.