What should I do if I can't get in the first time and it hurts?

The first sexual intercourse is very wonderful, but for both men and women, if they lack sexual experience, they often use improper force, which will not allow smooth insertion and may cause severe pain due to improper movements. This is all caused by lack of sexual experience. Don't be anxious at this time and be gentle in your actions. Let us learn about this.

What should I do if I can't get in the first time and it hurts?

The first time is not necessarily the most perfect one, or the most successful one. The first time is often likely to encounter some unexpected events, or failures, or lack of success. This is very common, especially for Virgos. A netizen described how she felt depressed and scared the first time. The first time, I inserted it a little more than halfway and couldn’t go in any further. I don’t know what happened. Come and listen to the expert’s answer with Brother Dan Ding!

1. From the male perspective

There had never been such stimulation in the past. When two people were together, they had hugged, kissed, and had some such contact in the past when they were in love, but they had never experienced real sex. So the first time, the man was very likely to be so excited that after both of them were naked, and seeing her so beautiful and charming, he might suddenly ejaculate without doing any action at all.

It is also possible that the penis cannot erect when one is excited, scared, or nervous. In the past, when two people hugged each other, the erection was quite good and lasted for a long time. But now that they are doing it for real, they can't even breathe.

Many people have had this experience: the first time taking an exam, the first time shooting, the first time driving, etc. Many first-time things are always nerve-wracking and exciting. Two situations may occur during the first sexual intercourse: one is that ejaculation is very fast, or occurs immediately; the other is that there is no erection. Both of these situations are very common for men. But don't worry, it definitely doesn't mean you are sick.

2. For women

You should also be mentally prepared that you may not succeed the first time. The number of cases where you fail the first time accounts for about 20%, which is a very high proportion.

You can even consider that during your first sexual intercourse, the woman's hymen may bleed a little after it breaks, so don't be afraid. Every situation has been taken into consideration, so we will be able to deal with it when the time comes.

Women tend to be nervous during their first time. I don’t know if you’ve heard from others how painful the first sexual intercourse is. This is what they worry about the most. They are afraid that they cannot bear the pain and that the rupture of the hymen will cause a rupture of the vagina. Some women are even afraid that their intestines will be poked out or their stomachs will be punctured during sexual intercourse. They have many concerns.

This knowledge should be learned and mastered before the first sexual intercourse. What is sexual intercourse really about? What problems may you encounter? What problems will you not encounter? You should have an understanding of these questions so that you won't have any mental burden. Without any burden, your first sexual intercourse will go more smoothly.

In short, the key to the first sexual life is to be prepared in all aspects: mentally, physically, psychologically and in life. In addition, the normal man-on-top position is more suitable for first-time sexual intercourse.