Typical manifestations of low emotional intelligence in women

In life, many people have very low emotional intelligence. They are easy to offend others. Low emotional intelligence is different from low IQ. People with low IQ may have difficulty in learning knowledge, but people with low emotional intelligence have difficulty in interpersonal relationships. Especially for women, if their emotional intelligence is very low, they are most likely to be self-centered. So what are the typical manifestations of women with low emotional intelligence?

1. Always unhappy and full of complaints.

Mature people never show their emotions on their faces. They all have their own way of managing their facial expressions. People with high emotional intelligence know how to make others comfortable, while people with low emotional intelligence only care about whether they are comfortable or not. Therefore, they often complain like a nagging woman, as if the whole world owes her money.

2. Arrogant and self-centered.

Although everyone has selfish desires, people with low emotional intelligence turn these selfish desires into selfishness. They are not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships often because they are arrogant, self-centered, unable to accept outside opinions, and do not have a broad mind.

3. Can’t speak.

Speaking the truth to real people and lies to ghosts is a rule of survival that adults must learn. However, people with low emotional intelligence do not understand this truth, and may even mistake their low emotional intelligence for being honest, often hurting others with their words without realizing it. Speaking is an art. People who say hurtful things unintentionally definitely don't take others too seriously.

4. Always act indiscriminately regardless of the place or occasion.

Women who act coquettishly have the best life. A woman who acts in a proper way will always make men unable to stop. However, women with low emotional intelligence will always do things endlessly regardless of the occasion and indiscriminately. They often make a mountain out of a molehill and don't know when to stop, which eventually leads to disaster. Small works can bring joy to your heart, while large works can harm your body. You must strike the right balance.

5. Always hurt men’s self-esteem outside.

People with high emotional intelligence know how to give the other person enough face, while women with low emotional intelligence are often overly humble. They say bad things about their men in other people's minds, thinking that they are being humble but actually hurting men's self-esteem and vanity, which is extremely fatal.

Summary: If you want to be a popular and charming woman with high emotional intelligence, the most important thing is of course to read more and improve your own cultivation! If someone around you has the above points, it doesn’t matter. Just observe and learn more in life, and learn from each other’s strengths and make up for your weaknesses!