Girls comfort themselves

The different physiological structures of girls and boys lead to different ways of expressing sexual desire between girls and boys. Women will also have their own ways of comforting themselves due to their own physiological needs. Unlike men, women need someone to listen to their moods and to heal themselves, so the methods and tools for self-comfort need to be chosen appropriately. If used improperly, it may cause more serious psychological trauma. Let’s find out.

Super practical tips for women to comfort themselves (Part 1)

The first comfort: the most important thing is today's heart

Why should we lose our current mood because of painful regret? Why should we be in constant fear because of inexplicable worries? The past is gone forever, and no amount of regret will help. The future is still out of reach, and no matter how much you worry, it will be in vain. Today's heart, today's things and today's people are real and feel good. Of course, we should summarize past experiences and prevent future risks. This is wisdom. Yesterday has passed, and tomorrow has not yet come, today is real!

The second comfort: You can only heal your own heartache

It is necessary to complain occasionally to vent, but endless complaining will only add to your troubles and show others your incompetence. Complaining is a fatal negative mentality. Once your complaining becomes a bad habit, your life will be dark and gloomy. Not only will you lose your good mood, but others will also suffer. Complaining is of no use, optimism is the most important thing.

The third comfort: a good mood is created by oneself

We often cannot change other people's opinions, the only thing we can change is ourselves. A bad life does not lie in the sins of others, but in our bad mood. The golden key to making life better is not in the hands of others. If we give up our resentment and sighs, a better life will be within our reach. Subjectively, we want to live a good life, but objectively we don’t have a good life. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives. Don't expect to change others, be the master of your own life.

The fourth comfort: do what you should do with your heart

Life is so short, why would anyone waste it? A wise philosopher once said: If someone scolds me on the street, I won't even turn my head back, because I don't want to know this boring person at all! We should neither hurt others nor be swayed by others' criticism. We should follow our own wishes and learn our skills well first. Especially when you are young, you should devote all your energy to learning skills and not be distracted.

The fifth consolation: Don’t always be hard on yourself

Learning to appreciate yourself is equivalent to having the golden key to happiness. Appreciating yourself is not self-admiration, appreciating yourself is not self-centeredness, appreciating yourself is not self-indulgence, and appreciating yourself is not complacent... Give yourself some news, give yourself a little happiness, give yourself a smile, then why worry about not having happiness in life? You should often celebrate holidays for yourself and learn to find a happy mood.