Signs of low emotional intelligence in girls

Compared with boys, girls generally have slightly higher emotional intelligence, but there are still many girls whose emotional intelligence is relatively low. Girls with low emotional intelligence may not be liked by boys, and may even make a lot of jokes. Low emotional intelligence does not mean that girls are simple and cute, but more of a reflection of their ignorance. To avoid this situation, girls need to improve their emotional intelligence. So, what are the signs that a girl has low emotional intelligence?

(1) Serving based on mood

Waiting for love and waiting for a good relationship before working is a common problem for many women with low emotional intelligence. The custom among these people is to serve according to their temperament and mood. They said that without a good mood, how can you possibly do good deeds?

This sounds reasonable and logical. In fact, this is not the case. When faced with a difficult and complex task, people's motivation to avoid it may be far stronger than their motivation to do it. If you insist on waiting for motivation or a mood to start serving, you will probably keep waiting.

(2) Will not encourage

Suppose you repeatedly ask your husband to take out the trash, but he always puts it off, and one day you come home and see that the trash has already been taken out.

In this situation, your response might be to say angrily as you walk into the house: Darling, I'm so glad you finally took out the trash, but you took so long I begged you to do it for two weeks.

If you react in this way, you will most likely make your husband angry. Because it's like I gave you a dollar and then took it back. When you look at your palm and see the money being taken away, you will be angry.

You praised your husband with a sincere and affirmative attitude that I loved and was glad to begin with, but then you said: I have been begging you for two weeks.

If you withdraw this kind of affirmation, your husband will be dissatisfied. He will not feel good after hearing the sincere affirmation because he still feels secretly humiliated.

(3) Self-willed and princess-like

Willful women are prone to princess syndrome in love, which may be related to their family environment where everything is abundant. Since they have been loved by their family since childhood, they will feel very wronged if they are hindered in any way.

Other women with princess syndrome will have an overly strong sense of dependence on their lovers. If the two break up, this type of woman will feel very helpless and even have suicidal thoughts. Her heart is quite fragile.