What should girls pay attention to when making love

It is now a common phenomenon for many boys and girls to have sex before getting married. Times are changing and people's thinking is also changing. When two people are in love, this situation will naturally occur. When two people have very deep feelings for each other, there will definitely be a burst of warm passion. In order to have perfect sex during sexual intercourse, a lot of skills are also needed.

1. Pleasing yourself is as important as pleasing the other person.

Sometimes, women try their best to meet the needs of their partners because they are afraid that their partners will not be satisfied. But sex is actually a giving and receiving process for both parties. If you only satisfy the other party, women will eventually come to hate "that thing." Women should be straightforward in telling their partners what they need, without feeling guilty or embarrassed, because in fact, men like women who can enjoy sex. When a man discovers that his actions can bring pleasure to a woman, it excites him more than any aphrodisiac.

2. Don’t fake an orgasm?

In order to please men, some women can fake an orgasm so realistically that men cannot tell the difference. But when they do this, they don't think about the long-term consequences: if they don't feel happy but pretend to have an orgasm, it will undoubtedly encourage men to repeat their wrong actions next time because they mistakenly believe that this method can make women happy. A woman once had this experience: her partner rubbed her vagina vigorously to make her orgasm, but it made her very painful. She was too embarrassed to tell him that his methods were too rough, so she pretended to have an orgasm so that he would stop. Unexpectedly, he rubbed her in this rough way every time afterwards, causing her more and more pain. Finally, she could not bear it anymore and had to tell him the truth. This was a huge blow to the man, and the woman felt very regretful, wishing she had made it clear at the beginning.

3. Don’t ignore the rest of a man’s body

Often, men seem to be able to go straight in without any foreplay and enjoy it. In fact, this is their own misunderstanding. Touching and teasing can turn a man on because when a woman does this, she is telling him how much she likes his body. Some women may be too shy to take action, but there is absolutely no man who doesn't like women to do so, so just go for it boldly and you will get visible results immediately. It's simple to caress and tease. Just keep sliding your fingers over his body, especially his inner thighs and nipples; sometimes touch his lower body as a tease. Women can also use their hair, tongue and eyelashes to increase the teasing effect.

4. Don’t be afraid of sexual fantasies

A woman admitted that every time she had sex with her husband, she imagined she was having sex with Leonardo. This imagination made her extremely excited, and her husband also got pleasure from her wild actions. She thought it didn't matter, since she couldn't really be having an affair with Matt Damon anyway. Experts say sexual fantasies are healthy (health food) because not only are they a great motivator, but what happens in the fantasy doesn't have to be real at all. For example, if a heterosexual man fantasizes about lesbian scenes, it does not mean that he is gay; if a woman imagines having sex with a man other than her husband, it does not mean that she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasies simply show that a person has a rich imagination, and this can indeed stimulate sexual intercourse.

5. Learn to masturbate

Since a man's first ejaculation usually comes from masturbation, the proportion of women doing so is definitely not low. In fact, masturbation is a very effective way of learning, because once you understand your own body, you can guide your partner to use the most appropriate way when having sex. Masturbation has another benefit: you will definitely reach orgasm.

6. Don’t be static

If you have sex in the exact same way every night, even if you orgasm every time, it will eventually become boring. This is because there is no expectation anymore. According to a certain woman’s personal experience: as long as she is on top and rubs the man’s genitals with her hips in circles, she can reach orgasm. Therefore, they adopted this position every time they made love, reaching climax quickly and ending it hastily, and the result was not satisfying at all. In fact, it's the old saying: the slower something is cooked, the tastier it is. In other words, the slower you reach climax, the more intense the pleasure. When you are in the most stimulating position, as soon as you reach a level of excitement that is sufficient to arouse you, you should switch to another position without waiting for orgasm. Doing this not only delays the onset of orgasm, but also allows you to explore the pleasure of other postures.

7. Understand the other person’s body

We know that everyone is different, and that includes sex. If a woman has had sexual experience with other men before, she may sometimes use the same methods she used with her current partner, which is inappropriate. So, how do you understand what the other person likes? This depends on careful observation. Of course, some people will automatically express their preferences with moans or shouts, but many people may be the type who prefer silence. At this time, you can listen to whether his breathing quickens or he gasps; whether his pupils suddenly dilate; his jaw sags; and the most obvious thing is that his penis becomes hard. By observing like this, it won’t take long before you can coordinate with his preferences perfectly.

8. Love your body

Nine out of ten modern women feel that they are too fat. Such self-deprecating views can sometimes prevent two people from enjoying themselves when they are naked together. For example, someone who thinks her breasts are too small may feel inferior when her partner touches her breasts, and may subconsciously avoid his hands or direct his attention elsewhere. Over time, such signals can cause distress to partners and affect sexual relations. One woman trained herself to think that even though she didn't have big breasts, the fact that men were willing to sleep with her proved that they didn't see anything wrong with her breasts. Just like that, she no longer resisted her male companions touching her breasts.