What should I do if my husband beats me?

With the development of society, everyone knows the importance of equality for all. However, in some remote areas or in some families with low education levels, domestic violence still often occurs. The most common one is husband beating his wife. As a woman in today's society, you must have a sense of self-protection and stand up bravely to defend your rights if you are beaten by your husband. For example, you can do the following work.

What should I do if my husband beats me?

Don't divorce. It's more strategic to guide him to care about you, that is, use tactics instead of confronting him head-on. For example, don't say he looks bad. Don't criticize or nag him too much about his behavior. Just let him do any housework and try to find ways to get him to do more housework so that he will have a sense of responsibility. Say less to him and be more serious with him, because such a man does not know how to care for his wife. Let him do more work and give him more difficult problems, and he will start to think about the difficulties. As for him hitting someone, you can give him a serious warning and call the police if he does it again, even if there are signs of violence.

To such a husband, you should talk less but be serious. Don't complain to him or anything. He will not change himself and realize that he needs love. You have to be strong and endure the temporary pain. Gradually he will feel awe and start to worry about sharing, and the relationship between husband and wife will improve.

Don't think you can act coquettishly and be unreasonable to him. Given my husband's personality, he won't give in. It's my fault for making the mistake. Now he has to face the reality, and this process is very painful. But it will get better slowly. Don’t divorce easily!

Under the current circumstances, the couple can live separately for a while, so that everyone can calm down and reflect on whether there is anything wrong with their usual behavior.

To be fair, men are generally a bit patriarchal. If their wives are better than them in all aspects, men will either feel inferior or look for trouble and opportunities to vent. So don't often show your superiority at home. Since you have married him, you must respect and care about him, instead of stimulating or attacking him.

Living separately is also a lesson for my husband. He can reflect on his inappropriate behavior during this time, and I believe he will be touched.

After a period of time, see his attitude. If he really repents, you can consider giving him a chance, but you must set rules for him in front of both families and promise that he will not hit people again in the future. If you continue to be the same and refuse to repent, it is not too late to consider divorce, but you must be cautious because it involves issues related to children and property, which can be troublesome.