Is virginity really important?

Some men often think that their girlfriend must be a virgin. Scientific research shows that most men have a virgin complex. In fact, for men, whether or not a person is a virgin should not be the criterion for whether or not to love someone. It is true that virginity witnesses a woman’s growth, but what should be done is not to care too much about whether she is a virgin or not.

From a physiological point of view, the criterion for distinguishing a virgin is the hymen; from a psychological point of view, the criterion for distinguishing a virgin is whether or not she has been slept with by someone else.

At a dinner party once, the male classmates gathered together to discuss this issue. Most straight men believe that if their girlfriend is not a virgin, she is being unfaithful to them. I feel disgusted to be with a girl like this, as if I am feeling wronged for using something that has been used by someone else. But most of the female compatriots said: You are not a virgin anymore, so whether I am a virgin or not is none of your business.

One night, when I returned home in the middle of the night, I heard the girl next door breaking up with her boyfriend. The boy's voice was particularly loud, and he just yelled: "You are not a virgin even when you are with me, what are you still arguing about?" I couldn't bear to hear any more. May I ask this gentleman, do you love her as a person or her hymen? If you really like virgins that much, then go find a virgin and live with her. You can just find a virgin to have sex with, deceive her feelings, and then walk away.

If you are a conservative person, just stick to the bottom line; if you are an open person, just relax and enjoy it. Someone who truly loves you won’t care whether you are a virgin or not; and someone who is insincere towards you will not love you forever just because you are a virgin.

Straight men always have a virgin complex and go on all kinds of one-night stands; girls should not feel inferior because they are not virgins. This is not the ancient feudal society. If girls are virgins, it means they love themselves; if girls are not virgins, it doesn’t mean they don’t cherish themselves. It is understandable that they can’t help themselves when they are deeply in love; it’s just that the latter enjoy life more.

You can criticize others and others can criticize you. Never apply moral judgment to others, because one day you might become the one being judged.

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