Women are becoming more open about sex

In modern times, people are becoming more and more open to sexual awareness, which has caused most women to lose their virginity due to many reasons. Many men seem to be open to the outside world, but in fact they still have some virgin complex in their hearts. In this era of relatively developed medicine, hymen repair surgery is also very popular. So, what are the common problems before hymen repair surgery? Common problems before hymen repair surgery include the following: 1. Cleaning the vagina:

Before undergoing hymen repair surgery, women should carefully clean their private parts to ensure that they are clean and tidy, so as to ensure the smooth progress of the surgery.

2. Sexual intercourse between husband and wife is strictly prohibited:

Women should refrain from sexual intercourse before undergoing hymenoplasty surgery to avoid infection in their bodies. Otherwise, once infection occurs, it will affect the effectiveness of the hymenoplasty surgery. If the surgery fails, it will have to be repeated, causing unnecessary damage to the woman's body.

3. Do not drink water before surgery:

Women should not eat or drink water after 12 o'clock at night the day before undergoing hymenoplasty. If women drink water before the operation, food may flow back during the operation and cause women to suffocate to death. This is very scary, so female friends should pay attention.

The "First Chinese Women's Social Media Behavior Survey" which was recently completed covered 10 popular cities in my country, and more than 50% of the population covered were single Chinese women born between 1995 and 1985. The questionnaire acquisition received nearly 100,000 points.

The survey report surprisingly found that Chinese girls' willingness to handle "love" and "sex" requests through social media far exceeded everyone's expectations. Among them, 64.79% of the girls would meet strangers through the Internet, 23.38% of the girls would actively extend sexual invitations to strangers, and 24.93% of the girls would develop into lovers with their sexual partners. In other words, it may be that seemingly quiet and traditional administrative beauty in your office who boldly looks for her own "prey" on social media at night. Of course, they can also handle it themselves.

Times have really evolved. Women have never attached so much importance to their own "impulses" as they do today, and have never taken the initiative to attack as they do today. Sex before love, as well as multilateral relationships, are the key starting points for the love of these single "shengnv" who are neglected by male society. More than one girl told me that they would have to have at least one sexual experience with the boy before they decided to be in a relationship. 47.94% of Chinese girls want to actively pounce on boys, and 29.16% of girls have multilateral cooperative relationships. They focus more on the quality of the relationship than on its sole value. Compared with the constraints of social morality, they feel that the passive and wasteful state of youth is irresponsible to their own lives. So three months ago, I saw the wife of American talk show host Huang Xi, and I asked her what her deep impression of Chinese girls was. He said Chinese girls are more open to the outside world than women in Western countries.

Question: Why are there more and more outstanding "older leftover women"?

However, why don't Chinese girls, who are open-minded, have the casual, independent and romantic love life like Western girls? This may be related to the unique psychological state of Chinese men: 1. Most of them have psychological barriers to outstanding girls and feel they cannot hold on. 2. They also have psychological barriers towards young and beautiful girls born in the 1990s, and feel that they cannot hold their own if they just play around. 3. They still have psychological barriers towards girls who are active and passionate. I feel like they are “casual” girls and still can’t hold it.

Out of this kind of inner thinking, they want to choose a relatively "safe" girl for blind date and marriage. The "safety" here has a special meaning: she must be good-looking, but not too lonely or too smart, and able to be held. The idea that a woman's virtue lies in her lack of talent is still spreading today… The Chinese economy has thus contracted the "cancer of older leftover women", because the women themselves also accept such a "steel straight man" view, thinking that once they are over 30, their value in the marriage and dating market will be completely lost, and the more successful they are in their careers, the more valuable they will be. They rely on men's judgment for all their personal values, do not pursue their own perfection, and are parasitic on men's success and wealth.