Sex life is very dry

Whether the sex life is harmonious can affect the relationship between husband and wife. Many couples break up because of the disharmony of sex life. Many men and women secretly consult online, saying that during sex, women’s vagina is very dry, causing both husband and wife to lose interest in sex. If a man finds that his woman's penis is dry during sex, he can read the following to learn how to relieve the problem.

1. Sexual skills factors

A normal vagina maintains a certain degree of moisture. During the process of sexual arousal towards orgasm, due to the accumulation of sexual excitement, the vagina produces secretions from a small amount to an increasing amount, making the vaginal lubrication reach a very high level. These lubricants mainly come from cervical secretions, exudate formed by congestion of the vaginal wall, and secretions from the Bartholin's glands at the vaginal opening.

During sexual intercourse, these fluids can only be secreted and gradually increase when sexual excitement reaches a certain level. If sexual excitement is insufficient, these lubricants will be secreted less or even not at all, which of course will lead to vaginal dryness. Some women may not have vaginal dryness originally, but it may appear after some special reasons. These special reasons are often caused by psychological or physiological factors.

Reason: This refers to insufficient foreplay during sexual intercourse, insufficient psychological preparation on the part of the woman, lack of sexual inducement on the part of the man, or unwelcome methods and approaches. Failure to arouse the woman sufficiently during sex or poor sexual function on the part of the man are also causes of vaginal dryness in women.

Solution: Have enough foreplay, indulge your lips and tongue, and do whatever you want. From the lips, chest, belly button, and then lower... fully arouse a woman's sexual desire.

2. Human factors

Women always hate the wet feeling of leucorrhea. They will wash their vagina twice a day, but their vagina will be very dry during sex. What should I do?

Reason: Some women blindly pursue "cleanliness" and regard leucorrhea as dirt. They flush the vagina repeatedly for a long time, which makes it impossible for the vagina to retain the beneficial secretions that should be there, causing the vagina to appear really clean. Unfortunately, this "dryness" brings "astringency" that affects sexual sensation.

Solution: It is sufficient to clean the vulva with clean water at ordinary times, but vaginal douching must be avoided.

1. Give her olfactory stimulation

A survey shows that 71% of people believe that body odor is a special "sexual stimulant"; about 1/3 of women prefer men with strong body odor and will be crazy about them. Men should make good use of this. On the one hand, try not to use bath gel with too strong a smell when taking a bath. On the other hand, you can hold her in your arms, let her quietly indulge in your arms and feel your scent.

2. Don’t let her wear underwear

Close-fitting underwear can outline curves, show sexiness and arouse men's desire. But for women, bras and underwear are too tight-fitting and make them worry about their figure. Let her wear a loose silk pajamas after taking a bath. The smooth fabric will stimulate her skin and make women more sexually aroused.

3. Change the conversation

A little bit of suggestive language can go a long way. For example, when you are about to get off work, send her a flirtatious text message in the office: "Was the last time we had sex in the bathroom or the kitchen? Did you feel great that time? Should we try a new place tonight?" Experts believe that provocative text messages can activate the "sexual radar" of both men and women at the same time, making them look forward to the next action.

Studies have found that when people look at a photo of their partner for 30 seconds, the part of the brain responsible for mobilizing sexual desire will be strengthened, making it easy to have the urge to have sex. You can show her the sweet photos you took together to help her feel better.

5. Hug for at least 20 seconds

The latest research finds that hugging for 20 seconds increases the secretion of oxytocin in both people. Face-to-face physical contact can create a deep sense of attachment between both parties. For women, a simple hug can arouse their sexual desire.