What does female frigidity mean?

For a couple or a married couple, it is very bad news if one of them is sexually indifferent. Whether the man or the woman is sexually indifferent, it will cause harm to themselves and the other party. If the communication between the two parties is not smooth, or if they are not tolerant and understanding of each other, it may cause a breakdown in the relationship. Therefore, this is an issue that both parties should pay attention to. If you don’t know what female sexual indifference means, let’s learn about this knowledge below.

What does female frigidity mean?

Sexual apathy refers to lack of sexual desire, which means no interest in sexual life, or it can also be said to be decreased libido. It is specifically manifested in two aspects: physiological symptoms and psychological symptoms. Physiological symptoms include: no response or insufficient pleasure response to sexual caress; no or little vaginal secretion of love fluid, dryness, tightness, and pain during sexual intercourse; no or insufficient pleasure, dullness, and lack of orgasm, etc. Psychological symptoms include: fear, disgust and psychological resistance to sex; obsessive-compulsive disorder and serious psychological trauma about sex; treating sex as an obligation or procedure and not being sufficiently involved; not taking the initiative during sex and feeling ashamed and dirty. It is recommended to eliminate negative psychological factors, read more books about sex knowledge, consult professional doctors more often, increase sexual desire, and improve lovemaking skills in order to truly enjoy sex.

Sexual apathy, also known as lack of sexual desire or coldness, is one of the sexual dysfunctions or disorders and a common sexual dysfunction in women. In different countries and regions, the proportion of women who have never experienced or rarely experienced sexual pleasure orgasm varies greatly, ranging from 10% to 90%. In most places, more than 25% of women have experienced or still experience sexual apathy. Only a few women can reach orgasm almost every time they have sexual intercourse, and about half of women have more or less experienced not reaching orgasm. The main manifestations of sexual apathy are women's lack of sexual desire, no demand for sexual life, indifference, dislike or disgust towards sexual intercourse, and feeling anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse. Some people do not actively avoid sexual intercourse, but cannot make appropriate sexual responses during sexual intercourse, lack pleasure, or the pleasure is not obvious or satisfying. Some women don’t even know what sexual pleasure is and have never experienced the feeling of sexual pleasure orgasm. The main factors that affect women's sexual indifference are:

1. Dirty Mind

Due to improper childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious influence or adult role models, children develop prejudices against sexual life. For example, they believe that sexual contact is dirty, obscene, unclean behavior, a sin, and that "men are happy and women suffer", which leads to feelings of disgust, aversion and fear towards sexual life.

2. Fear

Due to lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual contact, fear that sexual contact will cause pain, or misunderstanding of the psychological differences between men and women, the man's movements are rough and impatient on the wedding night, and he reaches orgasm and ejaculates quickly, but the woman does not experience pleasure, but instead feels discomfort or pain, and even has vaginal spasm. If this continues, you will become increasingly indifferent to sex life.

3. Worrying about pregnancy. Worrying and fearing about pregnancy and having no reliable contraceptive measures will inhibit normal sexual satisfaction and cause sexual apathy.

4. Environmental factors

Poor living conditions, living together with family, poor sound insulation in the room, etc. will interfere with normal sex life, affect mood, lead to unhappiness, lack of concentration and difficulty in arousing sexual excitement.

5. Emotional Factors

If the couple's relationship is not harmonious, they do not trust, are suspicious of or dislike each other, they will not be able to feel sexually excited. If the relationship between the couple is bad, and the wife refuses sexual intercourse as a means of revenge, it will also lead to sexual frigidity.