Masturbation is masturbation, which is harmful to the body. I believe everyone knows a little about this. Many people think that only men masturbate. Some people don’t know much about female masturbation. Some men even dare not agree with it and think that female masturbation is a manifestation of lewdness. So how should we view female masturbation? Is it harmful to the body? Let’s find out below. Choose a quiet and private environment First of all, the environment and atmosphere of masturbation is very important. For example, choose a quiet, private place where you are not likely to be disturbed or seen by others. This can not only increase your sense of pleasure. On the other hand, it can also avoid leaving psychological trauma on those nervous and conservative women who still have ethical concerns about masturbation. In addition, just like having sex, women can also help reach orgasm and arouse sexual excitement by reading some romantic novels or adult movies while masturbating. Secondly, because women's physiological structure is more special than men's, they must adopt a hygienic and safe method when masturbating. The famous American "Sexual Health" website aims to promote healthy sex life. The website expert Abby believes that only by keeping clean can the risk of contracting disease be minimized. Therefore, no matter what method you use to masturbate, it is important to keep your hands and genitals clean. For women who are accustomed to masturbating through underwear, the hygiene of underwear is also very important. It is best to change into clean underwear after taking a shower. Don't forget to take off your ring before masturbating In addition to washing your hands, don't forget to remove rings and other jewelry beforehand. In addition, don't let your nails be too long. It's best to cut them short and trim them to avoid scratching the vagina. Because the vagina is a very delicate body tissue, the mucous membrane is easily injured and easily infected by bacteria. Abby also said: You must pay attention to the hangnails on your hands and nails, because when you masturbate, the hangnails are likely to scratch the vaginal wall, and the pain may last for several days. Some people have more unusual habits and like to insert some kind of instrument into the vagina to masturbate. In this case, be sure to keep the instrument clean and preferably cover it with a condom, which not only acts as a sanitary barrier but also has a lubricating effect. Also, avoid choosing foreign objects that have sharp edges, are fragile, or can easily fall into the vagina. How do you view female masturbation? A questionnaire survey conducted by a psychological counseling department shows that most women can accept men's sexual masturbation, but men often find it difficult to accept women's sexual masturbation. Men are far more likely than women to admit to masturbating to their partners and to masturbate in front of their partners. The reasons are that, first, the indoctrination of gender roles has formed the idea that men have strong sexual desires and women have weak sexual desires, and it is easier to understand men masturbating than women masturbating; second, mainstream culture regards sex as something shameful, and masturbation is even a marginal sexual behavior, which is not in line with the concept of "ladies". The image is inconsistent. Third, women's masturbation undermines men's sexual confidence and makes them blame themselves for failing to satisfy women. Perhaps more importantly, we still live in an atmosphere where patriarchal culture has a profound influence. The deep psychological reason for resisting masturbation is the desire to own one's sexual partner's sexual behavior. When women masturbate, selfish men will feel that their sexual rights are violated. The prejudice in mainstream society is that masturbation is merely a supplement to sexual intercourse. First of all, I would like to affirm here that masturbation has value as an independent sexual behavior. At the same time, it should be pointed out that women's masturbation is also beneficial to men. Sexual masturbation is an important step for women to understand their own bodies, find and develop their own erogenous zones, capture their own keen sexual feelings, and make the body truly their own. A woman who has developed through masturbation can tell a man where she needs more stimulation and what kind of stimulation is best for her. If men are asked to figure these things out on their own, how many men have the patience to do so? Women can help men save time for exploration, spend less effort and do more practical things. Make the body and spirit of both parties more harmonious. The liberated woman is destined to be the true teacher of the liberated man. Women's orgasm comes later than men's. They have no sexual refractory period and can achieve orgasm continuously. When a man ejaculates, the woman's emotions may just be in place. When a man is in the shadow of sexual refractory period and is powerless, a woman can use her own strength to experience a continuous, endless and beautiful orgasm. If there is no masturbation, wouldn't men be blamed too much by women who fail to satisfy them? For women who are "sexually unemployed" (unmarried, widowed, husband away on business or sick, etc.) and have no sexual partner, masturbation is almost the only way for them to obtain physical and mental satisfaction. Men all want to see their sexual partners reach orgasm faster, but men who lack romantic feelings and are unwilling to sacrifice themselves for the benefit of women are still keen on the penis-vagina sexual intercourse model, which obviously cannot best stimulate the woman's sexual sensitivity center - the clitoris. Only when masturbation is involved in sexual intercourse can the clitoris be better stimulated, women can more easily reach orgasm, and the ideal of mutual pleasure between the two sexes can be realized more quickly. In the biological sense, women are animals that are far more sexy and have stronger sexual abilities than men. However, in the sociological sense, women are portrayed as freaks whose sexual desire is far less than that of men. With the rise of a new generation of women, they will inevitably succeed in betraying the enslavement and suppression of their natural attributes by traditional culture, and become women who are more obedient to the call of their own lives. If this is true, how many men can always give women complete sexual satisfaction? The opportunities in life, at least in terms of sexual behavior, should be that women are stronger than men. Fortunately, masturbation can help women, and while helping women it also helps men out. It should be noted that women who have the habit of masturbation should not be ashamed to seek medical attention when they find signs of gynecological diseases. Don't be afraid or blame yourself just because you have a history of masturbation, which will delay the opportunity to discover the real cause of the disease. It should be reminded that women can masturbate appropriately, but remember not to do it excessively. |
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