What to do if women are sexually cold

Generally speaking, men will never say that they have no interest in sex, otherwise they may be suspected of being impotent by their peers. But it is different for women. Sexual indifference is not only not impotence, but may also be a sign of being virtuous and faithful to one's husband. The problem of sexual frigidity is more common in women. Decreased libido and reduced sexual sensitivity will affect the normal life of the couple. What kind of stimulation do women need in their sex life to alleviate the problem of sexual frigidity?

Under the influence of Eastern cultural traditions, the vast majority of domestic women will not express their true emotions about their sexual experiences in words, and often vent or protest by becoming irritable, angry, or becoming silent, depressed, etc. Under such circumstances, it is difficult to say that family life is happy and harmonious. Women who cannot get sexual satisfaction and experience orgasm in their sex lives face physical and mental damage.

What to do if a woman is sexually frigid?

1. Start from the most sensitive part of the body.

The brain is the most sensitive sexual organ in the human body, especially for women. Because many sexual behaviors need to be analyzed by the brain before we can finally feel pleasure.

For example, in real life, when a person smells the fragrance of flowers, the hormone content in the human body will change. Therefore, during sexual life, the brain's control of vision and smell will promote the secretion of estrogen, accelerate ovulation, and make women more likely to have sexual desire.

When every couple sees or thinks of their significant other, the brain releases a chemical substance that makes the body excited and sexual desire emerges. This chemical substance is what we commonly call "amphetamine". This is how the brain affects human vision.

2. Express your love for each other by kissing.

After a romantic kiss, the human body will gradually develop sexual desire. In fact, this is also a simple processing of information by the brain. When your lips touch your partner's skin, you will deeply inhale the other person's scent. Your brain will start to collect information, which will give you a good feeling. If a couple has already had intimate contact, previous sexual images will appear in the brain at the same time, making it easier for the body to become sexually excited.

3. Do enough preparation for foreplay.

Because women's physiological structures are different from men's, men can generally reach a state of sexual excitement in about 5 minutes, while women need 15 to 20 minutes to fully arouse their sexual desire. The quality of foreplay directly affects the quality of sex. Men can focus on the sensitive points on women and give more caresses. In addition to physical contact, a moderate amount of sweet talk and compliments can help women get into the mood faster.

Women's age determines their sexual needs

As the saying goes: women's sexual desire is "like a wolf at 30 and a tiger at 40", but the statistics of the "White Paper" show that young women aged 20-28 have the highest frequency of sex. With increasing age, the number and frequency of women having sex show a downward trend. Due to factors such as marital status, their own hormones, spouse's situation and real life, the sex life satisfaction of women over 40 is relatively low, which urgently needs social attention.

If your wife has some sexual dysfunction problems, you should work with her to find out the real cause of the psychological disorder and solve it step by step. In addition, you should actively seek medical attention to determine whether it is a physiological problem or a mental illness so that you can receive timely treatment. For female patients with frigidity, the support and cooperation of their partners are the basis and key to treatment.