Why is this kind of woman the most unfaithful?

The most common comment about women heard in recent years is: "They are becoming less and less virtuous." But if we ask a little more deeply, what is wrong with so-called unfaithful women? The answers are all the same: they smoke and drink, wear revealing clothes, hang out in nightclubs, stay out all night, and flirt with other men on social networks.

Women are getting worse

If it were a man, these behaviors would be perfectly common and would never become a criterion for judging good or bad, but society is always a little harsher on women. So, it’s not that women have generally become bad, but that women have the opportunity to express their normal desires, and this expression has not yet been widely accepted, so it appears particularly outstanding.

The "bad" of a "bad woman" has different standards at different times and places, and the threshold of being "bad" can be high or low. The era of "The Book of Songs" was an era of innocence, when there were still no constraints and it was normal to express desires. Men and women meeting among mulberry trees and gazing at each other by the water were still sung about. Therefore, Mr. Zeng Yuan said that the so-called "pure thoughts" did not mean that that era was particularly solemn, but that people had no concept of "evil" at all and did not think there was anything wrong with it.

Then the situation became increasingly tense and various strict restrictions were imposed. In "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio", there are a large number of women with bad reputations. Those who have a bad background, an overly lively personality, or have had in-depth relationships with more than one man are all labeled as "bad". This standard was still effective until modern times. If a woman did not bind her feet properly and was not liked by her mother-in-law, she would be considered a bad woman. In the movie "The Grandmaster", Ip Man took his wife Zhang Yongcheng to Jinlou (roughly equivalent to today's high-end nightclubs) to listen to music, which was regarded as an extraordinary act. Zhang Yongcheng felt uncomfortable under the gazes of others and needed her husband's comfort to calm her down.

In the 1970s, the threshold for being "bad" wasn't raised much. What about the 1980s? Lu Min's novel "This Feeling Cannot Be Delivered" describes the "crackdown" in 1983, in which a group of young people held a family dance party behind closed doors. The 19-year-old Lu Danqing was sentenced to death for being intimate with a young girl named Sijia at the dance.

In the following thirty years, women's expression of desire finally gradually returned to normal, and the threshold of "bad" became higher and higher. Of course, this process is always accompanied by controversy. "If You Are the One" has just been aired on TV and some men are very angry. Yes, it is really bad for women to publicly choose men and openly express their opinions on men's appearance and income.

But after being confined for a long time, when women suddenly get the opportunity to express their desires, their expressions are somewhat distorted. All human experience needs to be passed on. But this kind of inheritance is clearly missing. Women seem to have been suddenly dragged from the wilderness into prosperity. They are somewhat panicked and have gone from one extreme to another.

I have met many women who are very sexy, but their sexiness is like in the movies - that's not a compliment, it's a derogatory term. They looked like they came out of an erotic movie, exaggerated and dramatic. But this is as unreliable as wearing costumes on the street. In the atmosphere of the stage, the costumes will not make people feel strange. In daily life, the expression of desire like a costume seems particularly bizarre.

You have to know that in a society where men dominate everything, the women in erotic images are not ordinary people. They are shaped according to men's wishes. They always try hard to please men, actively present themselves, have no taboos and are brave enough to try.

Many media also follow this way of shaping. Various social networks and various social platforms on mobile phones have also worked together to create a wrong impression: this is the only way, and only in this way can women liberate themselves, face their desires, and return to their true selves.

Why are there more and more "bad women"? There are more and more opportunities to express desires, but distorted expressions can be seen everywhere.