What do girls do when they have sexual urges?

It is normal for girls in puberty to have sexual desire. Girls should not be shy, but should have the courage to face this problem and deal with it! So do you know that adolescent girls have sexual excitement? What will girls do when they are sexually excited? Today I will interpret this issue. Let's take a look at the relevant knowledge!

The physiology, emotions, and psychology of adolescent men and women are in a state of fluctuation, which can easily lead to sexual excitement. Adolescent women should be aware that the difference between humans and other animals in this regard is that human sexual life is controlled by reason and manipulated by ideas.

The metabolic series of adolescent girls' bodies begins to complete and estrogen begins to be produced. This is a normal physiological phenomenon of a girl. As the body grows and matures, sexual awareness begins to sprout in her heart. She develops unusual feelings for the opposite sex, and feels curious and fond of them, and feels that they have a charm. Many girls in this stage are emotionally confused: they want to show off their body, but don't want to attract attention; they hope to be loved and pursued by boys, but at the same time they are worried about not being popular, or worried about being considered cheap and shameless. How should adolescent girls deal with sexual excitement? How do girls deal with sexual excitement?

First: Be brave enough to absorb knowledge about both sexes and master yourself. Adolescent girls can learn relevant sex knowledge without hesitation, read some books on these subjects with confidence, or open up to their parents, teachers and sisters, tell them their secret feelings and get knowledge from them. Only if you have general knowledge about the sexes as a foundation can you correctly understand the sexual physiology and self-awareness changes during puberty, and you will not feel frightened, confused, distressed, anxious, or annoyed by normal sexual excitement.

Second: Students should concentrate on their studies and avoid romance. When young men and women reach puberty, most of them have normal sexual desires, but the degree of desire varies. But sexual physiology and self-awareness are not mutually exclusive. The former is much earlier than the latter. Therefore, student love is extremely inappropriate for young girls whose self-awareness is far from perfect. And the most important thing is that teenage girls are the most energetic and have the strongest memory in their lives. They are in the stage of schooling with full curiosity. If they are trapped in the quagmire of student love, not only will their studies be distracted, delaying this golden period of schooling in their lives, but their mind and body may also suffer great damage.

Because girls aged fifteen or sixteen are in the process of physical and mental development, the inhibition and excitement of the brain are very unstable, they are prone to emotional desires, lack self-control, and often show obvious sexual excitement in their sexual life. If they lack sexual hygiene and moral education, have little vision and experience, and are still in a state of doubt about love and sex, they are very likely to "fall". Therefore, if you have a vague idea of ​​love for a boy, you have to give up reluctantly.

Third: Be gentle and considerate, and live in harmony. In order to prevent "electric shock accidents", should we avoid interacting with male and female classmates? Of course not. The more separated and unfamiliar young men and women are, the more mysterious, anxious and sensitive they become about their sex life. Girls who lack normal interactions with the opposite sex tend to be overly sensitive in sexual needs and even become distracted once they come into contact with the opposite sex. If you have already developed discrimination, fear and curiosity towards friends of the opposite sex in your heart, then you should pay more attention to getting along normally with boys. As long as your own ideas are correct, your attitude will seem natural, and will not cause any concerns or anxiety on the other side.

Fourth: Improve your character and enhance your self-control. Fifteen or sixteen is the age of innocence for adolescent girls, but it is also a "risky" age. However, as long as you improve your moral cultivation, pay attention to cultivating your own character, concentrate on learning, correctly view the sexual excitement during adolescence, and have a clearer understanding of the serious harm caused by sexual indiscriminateness during adolescence, you will also be able to use strong self-control to manage your sexual excitement, use scientific methods to promptly release sexual desires, and safely spend this important and beautiful moment in your life.

Correctly deal with the various physiological changes that occur during puberty, such as menstruation, breast development, and sexual charm, cultivate a healthy sexual consciousness and morality, actively avoid pornographic, vulgar, and dirty negative stimulation, usually do not read pornographic magazines and pictorials, and don't blindly imitate the sexual postures of men and women in some film and television works.

In addition, when making friends, you must choose carefully and avoid getting along with those who have crooked and dirty styles.

Keep a regular routine in your daily life, don’t be upset after having sex, go to bed early, and don’t sleep in the morning. No need to be addicted to alcohol. Keep the external genitals clean, do not wear tight pants, and avoid friction and stimulation, which will help to relieve sexual desire.

Men and women should interact with each other in a natural, frank and friendly manner. Therefore, you should participate in more group activities, and it is best not to go to the karaoke bar. Avoid certain frequent contacts. When contacting with friends of the opposite sex, be sure to keep a cool head and use reason to control your emotions. Cherish friendship as well as the innocence of beautiful girls.