Mama's boy and brother-supporting demon are both terrible. Men cannot balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, while women blindly help their brothers regardless of the specific situation of their own family, which leads to the deepening of conflicts between the couple and gradually coldness. If neither of them is aware of this problem, they can forget about living a good life. Men in marriage should be responsible men who can distinguish right from wrong, and women in marriage should be wise women who understand things and value knowledge. Love is mutual. What does mama's boy and brother-supporting demon mean?A mama's boy is like a child who has not been weaned. He listens to his mother's words and dares not disobey. He has been very dependent on his mother since he was a child. He has seen and remembered his mother's efforts for him. He secretly vowed to protect his mother in this life and not let her suffer any grievances. In the heart of a mama's boy, his mother ranks first, and his wife and himself rank behind. The scary thing about a woman who supports her brother is that she is too virtuous, always fantasizing that she is a "savior", and offends others without any sense of boundaries. In fact, she is a control freak in the name of love. Whether it is a mama's boy or a devil's brother, they are all scary objects. Only those who are in the situation can deeply understand the ups and downs. Characteristics of a Mama's BoyThe first is a strong possessiveness towards the partner. I want to know everything about you. I want to know every love experience you have had since childhood. I want to report the time, place and people you are with when you are on business trips or going out. Don't even think about having any privacy when you are in a relationship with such a person. Then there is the strong desire for control. I have the final say over everything about you, and you can’t do anything I don’t like. This may make people feel that this person is very opinionated, especially in the early stages of a relationship, but he actually just can’t accept that you are out of his control. The last point is also the most obvious one, how does he treat you and his mother. If he can't treat you both equally, leans towards his mother, or is even too close to her, then he is most likely a mama's boy. Who is scarier, the mama's boy or the brother-supporting demon?As the saying goes, "Don't marry a mama's boy, and don't marry a man who supports his brother." These two types of people are essentially complementary. Mama's boys have no opinions or self-esteem, and they all follow their mother's instructions. These men come from families with a mother who is extremely controlling. People seem to dislike mama's boys, but in fact they dislike the mother who is extremely controlling. The self-consciousness of the brothers-supporting demons is too strong. They regard themselves as mothers and try to support the whole family by themselves. The general idea of the brothers-supporting demons is: if you marry me, we will be a family, and you have to support our family together with me. Some people say that a mama's boy will be able to get rid of his mother's control one day, but a brother-supporting demon will never retire in his life. This is not entirely true. Both types of people have distorted normal consciousness in their thinking. Regardless of whether their mother and brother exist, they will show their characteristics in different forms. There is no saying that one is more terrible than the other. As long as they don't make changes, both types of people will have character flaws that will accompany them throughout their lives. |
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