What is the reason for the high divorce rate among modern people? Why do young people get divorced now?

The divorce rate among young people is getting higher and higher. Divorce seems to be commonplace. Everyone thinks that marriage is unimportant. Moreover, there are many only children nowadays. Everyone subconsciously likes to be self-centered, which easily leads to the breakdown of marriage. There are even people who don't want to get married or have children. Is this social progress or social pathology?

What is the reason for the high divorce rate among modern people?

Do you still remember the topic when you chatted with your former classmates? Did you always hear some news about someone getting divorced or someone getting married again? In your own environment, there are many divorced people. It seems that everyone thinks that divorce has become a common phenomenon, insignificant, and no big deal. As for marriage, if it is suitable, stay together, if it is not suitable, separate. Many people look at marriage in this way. I have seen a view on the high divorce rate before: in the past, people were reluctant to throw away broken things, and they could continue to use them after mending them. Nowadays, people throw away broken things and buy new ones. They treat marriage in the same way. Maybe this is one of the reasons.

Why do young people get divorced nowadays?

Simply put, they don't want to be responsible in marriage. When they are single, they do whatever they want. Their parents do the housework at home and they never have to do it themselves. They just have to eat on time and do whatever they want. No one ever restrains them. No one cares if they go home late at night after playing with friends. But it is different after marriage. When they are married and have their own family, they should learn to take responsibility and put the family first in everything. They should not just enjoy themselves and ignore the feelings of those around them. Such behavior is very irresponsible. They are selfish in marriage and divorce is an inevitable result because they have no sense of responsibility for their marriage.

Why don't you get married and have children?

It's not that I don't want to, it's that I haven't met the person with whom I can get married and have children. Every day I see all kinds of scumbags on the Internet and wonder what's the point of dating. When I see people getting divorced due to various family conflicts, I wonder what's the point of getting married again. Occasionally, my family talks about how much time and money it takes to raise a child, which makes me even more tired. At this time, if I meet someone I don't have feelings for, I really can't convince myself to solve the various problems that will arise in the future life together with him/her. Because I am just an ordinary person with a small social circle and I can't get to know so many people. If I can't solve it, I'd rather give up and stay single!

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