What should you do if you meet a once-in-a-lifetime guy on a blind date?

With the development of information, many popular words have appeared on the Internet recently, such as the frequently appearing "Pu Xin Man" and "Pu Xin Woman", but most people don't quite understand what they mean. In fact, they are ordinary people who are mysteriously confident. It is often embarrassing to be with such people. What should you do if you meet a thousand-year-old "Pu Xin Man" on a blind date? Let's take a look at the introduction brought by Encyclopedia Knowledge Network!

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1. What does Puxinnan and Puxinnu mean?

2. What to do if you meet a plain-speaking man on a blind date

3. Pu Xinnan's Classic Quotes

What does Puxin Man and Puxin Woman mean?

1. Ordinary men refer to those boys who have average looks and abilities, but are overly confident. The common characteristics of these boys are that they have average looks and average salaries, but are overly confident, and they comment on girls' age, skin, figure, dress, makeup, hairstyle, education, height, etc.

2. Puxinnv refers to ordinary and confident women. It originated from Yang Li's "He is so ordinary, but so confident" in "Tucao Conference" - used to describe men who have no self-awareness, and derived Puxinnang. Later, some people used this word on some girls, that is, Puxinnv.

What to do if you meet a plain guy on a blind date

First, know yourself correctly and have confidence in yourself.

No matter how confident the other person is, how arrogant he is, and how he belittles you. You must stick to your original intention. Blind dates are not for torturing yourself. If the other person is almost a common man, and his values are extremely incompatible with yours, then don't bother with him. Reject his ambiguity directly, otherwise your euphemism and respect will become what he calls love. When the other person belittles you, don't take it to heart, he can fart, you live your life. As long as you can correctly understand yourself, do not over-exaggerate or minimize your own strengths and weaknesses, whether good or bad, and can look at yourself with a normal heart, then no "common man" can hurt you.

Second, ignore the other party’s blind self-confidence and give an eye for an eye.

During the blind date, if the other party does make you feel uncomfortable, no matter what he says or what he does. At this time, don't be patient, and don't indulge the other party's behavior and places that make you uncomfortable. You can also follow suit. If the other party does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you can also fight back. Give the other party the same words and actions. Let him also feel the mental torture brought by "Pu Xin".

Third, end it as soon as possible and don’t fight to the end.

Whether you have something to say or nothing to say, the best choice when you meet this kind of blind date is to withdraw quickly. Don't fight to the end, and don't try to correct the other person's mistakes, because this will only make you feel more helpless. After all, a person's confidence is a long-term cognition of himself, and you can't make him realize the problem with just a few words. Instead of wasting time on meaningless things, it is better to get to know more interesting people. In fact, ordinary and confident are not only men, but also women. This has nothing to do with gender, but also a person's misunderstanding of self-cognition.