Does the first time really matter?

Due to the influence of traditional ideas, women are subject to more restrictions. Some people may be discriminated against by their husbands because it is not their first time. In fact, for girls, the first time is really very important because it marks the growth of a woman. Of course, whether it is the first time or not, women must learn to protect themselves.

Although sexual liberation in the West means that sex is no longer related to marriage and having children, the first sexual experience is still important for anyone. Although sex life is related to sex hormones, that is, many of us, especially those in adolescence, have sexual behavior driven by sex hormones, but most of us have sex because of emotional significance.

The first sexual intercourse is often seen as a sign of maturity, a step in the transition from girl to woman, and a milestone in life. It can mark your status among your peers, it can be your way of getting back at your parents, or it can be a reward for a loyal partner. In reality, we still think of losing your virginity as a way to bond with your partner. It is a symbol of love reaching its highest level.

Many women said that they felt mentally disappointed because of losing their virginity; sex was more urgent than love; they did not have the feelings of adult women, but felt guilty. However, most women are able to continue to have happy relationships - the key to a successful sex life is a mutual trust between partners.

A woman's first sexual intercourse is accompanied by the rupture of her hymen and vaginal pain, which will have some impact both physically and psychologically. So for men, this is a test of whether you are a good husband or a good boyfriend.

Solution [Practical Countermeasures]

● Make sure your partner understands how you feel about having sex for the first time; if possible, talk to him or her about your concerns beforehand. ● Make appropriate arrangements for yourself, including a private place and plenty of time.

●Contraception is the secret to ensuring you don’t get pregnant during your first sexual intercourse. ●If you have never used tampons, your vagina will be tighter. You can insert one finger first, then the second and third, and press down to expand the vaginal opening.

●Choose a position that makes penetration easy for him. Spread your legs apart and place a pillow under your hips if possible. ●You can apply saliva or KY gel on his penis.

● Hold his penis, position it and allow it to penetrate; this will help you feel in control and in control of the pace. ● During entry, push him down slightly to avoid tightening your vaginal muscles.

●You can’t orgasm the first time—it’s just a practice run.

The hymen is a fold of skin at the entrance to the vagina that is found only in humans and horses and appears to have no real biological significance. If a woman is born with an imperforate hymen, she will need to have her hymen cut open at menarche to allow menstrual blood to flow out.

You may be born with an incomplete hymen, or your hymen may be torn during exercise. If it has not been broken before, the hymen will be torn or stretched during first intercourse.