What is the psychology of a woman after cheating?

The divorce rate is getting higher and higher nowadays. In the eyes of many people, marriage is just like children playing house. One of the reasons for divorce is cheating. Whether it is a man or a woman, there are actually signs before cheating, and there will be changes in psychology and life. Let’s take a look at the psychological changes in women after cheating!

1. After cheating, people with happy marriages experience three significant psychological changes

First, the sense of guilt increased. I felt sorry for my husband, sorry for my parents on both sides, and sorry for my family. I became better to my family members in my daily behavior. Some women, contrary to their usual behavior, become gentle and considerate to their husbands, more respectful to their parents, and more caring towards their children, and seem to have become more sensible overnight. If the husband knows the truth and can refuse to speak it out or pretend not to know, then he will enjoy the most tender care for a long time. Perhaps, at this moment, he is the happiest man in the world.

Second, they pay special attention to their appearance. These women suddenly become fond of dressing up, putting on makeup, and observing themselves in front of the mirror for a long time. For some unknown reason, the woman's face is always flushed and her palms are moist. In some cases, she will even stare blankly for a long time alone.

The third is that they suddenly become extremely sensitive. Some women become inexplicably sensitive to gossip, and even become suspicious, always worrying that others will find out something and say bad things about them. If the husband could discover his wife's infidelity in time and point out the problem, then a woman who was originally gentle and virtuous might suddenly become hysterical again, and her feelings for her husband might plummet, even endangering the stability of the family.

2. People who are unhappy in marriage also experience three psychological changes after cheating.

First, the happiness index has increased significantly. Women are already suffering and worried because of the misfortune of marriage. Once they break through the fence and liberate themselves, they will have an unprecedented sense of release and their pain will be relieved. This release includes the psychology of revenge and rebellion, both psychologically and physically.

Secondly, the concept of family becomes weaker, and unfaithful women gradually drift away from their families, and even develop an indifferent attitude. Some women begin to gradually weaken their feelings for their husbands, children, and the elderly, and even hate, feel bored, and disgusted with them.

The third is the stubborn pursuit of love. Due to the misfortune of marriage, women become more obsessed with love after cheating and are more worried about whether the other party's feelings are real. They will develop a potential expectation of establishing a new family, and this expectation will become stronger day by day and may reach an uncontrollable level.

There are two main trends in the psychological changes of women after cheating. One is that they become suddenly enlightened and their mood improves; the other is that they become anxious and their mood inexplicably worsens. This is mainly due to the differences in women's actual situations and marital status.