This is what Japanese women look like when they take off their kimonos. The truth is shocking!

The most perfect life in the world is: "Live in a British house, eat Chinese food, get an American salary, and one more thing is to marry a Japanese woman." Speaking of Japanese women, men all over the world (even those who are very "anti-Japanese") will think that they are virtuous and gentle.

The Japanese wives we see in many movies are like this: they get up at five or six in the morning to prepare breakfast for their husbands and prepare their husbands' underwear, socks, shirts, suits and ties for the day, not even forgetting the handkerchief. Usually, after preparing lunch for her husband and children and sending them out of the house, she would start doing laundry and cleaning the house.

In the evening, the bath water is warmed up, the dishes are laid out, and we wait for the "master" who has been tired all day. When the doorbell rings, the housewife's "final performance" of the day begins with a gentle "thank you for your hard work". It is more like having dinner with a companion than having dinner with my husband and children. During the banquet, the housewife has the responsibility to add food and wine to everyone's table, clean up, etc.

I asked many Japanese friends: "Are all Japanese women like this?" They laughed and said "No! That's from old movies..."

The Japanese drama "Yamato Nadeshiko" was popular on Phoenix TV's Chinese channel some time ago. The story tells of a poor stewardess Sakurako who betrayed her lover in order to marry into a wealthy family. She even disowned her father who had raised her with great difficulty and regarded this marriage as a business.

This reflects the common psychology of many Japanese women today. Today's Japanese women are no longer the fixed image in people's minds.

Once I asked a Japanese friend if they still wear kimonos nowadays. He said he had never worn one, but his grandfather seemed to have worn one.

What are Japanese women like after they take off their traditional kimonos? In the busy streets of Tokyo, such as Shibuya, Harajuku, Shinjuku or Ikebukuro, you can always see some girls in school uniform skirts, saying ambiguously to the middle-aged men passing by, "Can you give me money?"

For many married Japanese women, "infidelity" and "extramarital affairs" have become a fashion and trend that they pursue. The survey shows that the number of people who believe that one must remain "pure" after marriage has dropped from 53% in 1968 to 31% today (2003).

Many middle-aged and elderly Japanese women can also be said to be "keeping up with the times." Chinese people often say "people grow old and their beauty fades". But in Japan, those women who dress elegantly and wear lots of jewelry are often middle-aged or older women.

My Japanese teacher once said to me: "I think Chinese elderly people are very energetic, especially men, who still run and swim every day after retirement.

In Japan, most men go to the hospital every day after retirement. ”

There are some old women in Japan who, after saving enough money for retirement, suddenly announce their divorce from their husbands when their husbands retire and return home. They kicked their husbands out the door as "big garbage" because they could not do any housework except running to the hospital every day. Even if there are deep-seated social reasons for this, it still feels too cruel.

A young Chinese man who worked in a Japanese company fell in love with a Japanese female doctor, and after marriage they had a boy. The female doctor never took out her own salary, and the expenses of the family of three depended entirely on the man. Later, due to the economic downturn in Japan, the man lost his job. So the Japanese wife said, "You don't have a job now and you can't take on the responsibilities of a man. I can't live with you anymore." In the end they broke up.

I was surprised to hear this true story. Because they were in a free love relationship and had a child. Doctors' salaries in Japan are very high. She fully understands that life is not easy for Chinese men in Japan, and everyone should work together to get through the difficult days. Japanese women who take off their kimonos believe that men without jobs have nothing, and they are cruelly realistic.

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Japanese little women: ruining their innocence

In the busy streets of Tokyo, such as Shibuya, Harajuku, Shinjuku or Ikebukuro, you can always see some strange crowds, especially at night or on holidays. They come in groups of three or five, with their faces deliberately tanned brown or black, their hair dyed brown or yellow, they wear pajama-like suspender skirts, and thick-soled shoes like Peking Opera boots, and they pass by you chatting and laughing as if no one is around.

They are only in their teens, in the prime of their youth, but purity seems to be a distant memory for them. If you were not aware that you were on the streets of Tokyo, you might mistakenly think you were in the Yasha Kingdom.

In fact, they are Japanese junior high school or high school girls. Most of the time they wore navy blue school uniforms and fixed black leather shoes. Over the years, the hems of Japanese schoolgirls' school uniforms have become shorter and shorter, almost like miniskirts. Another major feature of female students' clothing is that they all wear long white stockings that are almost knee-length.

This kind of stockings has almost become synonymous with female middle school students. White socks with a blue skirt should look very pure. Unfortunately, female students sometimes behave in a way that ruins this purity.

Once, a Japanese TV station's entertainment program was whimsically about competing to see who had the stinkiest feet. The host jumped around in the audience with a tester, and in the end, the championship was won by a female middle school student.

When the host inserted the test pen into the girl's socks, the numbers on the monitor jumped wildly. The host excitedly asked the girl how long it had been since she washed her socks.

The female student answered one week or ten days, which caused laughter from the audience. This is an extreme example, of course, but it illustrates the boredom of modern Japanese girls.

Dirty clothes can be washed, but a polluted mind is not easy to clean. The decadence of Japanese society and the failure of the education system in recent years have led to sexual crimes being committed at younger and younger ages. The telephone club that is popular all over Japan is a typical example. It is called a club, but in fact it provides pornographic services via telephone. Connected at both ends of the telephone line are female high school students and men who are looking for spiritual comfort and excitement. The female students made money but forgot that they had become a tool for bored men to vent their anger.

Sometimes he and she became "friends" over the phone, and she "walked" off the line and started having real contact with him. The female student accompanied a man who could almost be her father to drink and sing karaoke, and eventually became what they called a "baby pigeon"... Of course, she also received a considerable "reward" for this.

The Japanese like to use the euphemism "compensated dating" to "beautify" the behavior between the old pervert and the female middle school student, saying that what is between him and her is just a transaction. The female high school students are not seeking excitement because they are poor. This is the result of the moral decline of the commercial society where money is paramount. The deterioration of social morals has caused sexually transmitted diseases to spread to young girls, causing great grief to many people with conscience.

Japanese women: I want to do whatever I want

In the 1990s, there was a popular term in Tokyo—"Hanako". It was originally the name of a magazine, but later it came to refer specifically to female office workers who made purchases based on the shopping guide "Hanako".

The "hua" in "huazi" refers to the flowers of the prime years.

However, the author believes that it would be more appropriate to add the Chinese character “花” (flower) for “spend” and the character “花” (flower) for “to have an affair with someone else”. Because the consumption of "Hanako" is indeed an important factor driving social consumption in Japan, both during the peak of the bubble economy and after the collapse of the bubble economy.

"Hanako" are often buyers of high-end goods, especially brand-name goods, and their consumption concepts are quite similar. They often come in a swarm and leave in a swarm, leaving the shop owners confused, but the merchants are still willing to spend time analyzing the consumption trends of "Hanako". "Hanako" are also frequent customers of hotels and other catering businesses such as cafes, but they are not the ones who pay the bills in many occasions. Naturally, there are people of the opposite sex willing to serve them, including their superiors. "Hanako" uses her beautiful looks to win the hearts of her middle-aged male superiors, making them infatuated and willing to spend money on her. Sometimes they even become the third party that disrupts their boss's family.

Of course, most "Hanako" know how to end the game at the right time, and will choose to get married when they meet someone they like. But most of them are already quite old at this time, and some of them have already lost their traditional chastity through so much fun.

Therefore, there is a kind of business in the Japanese medical market - "repair **** membrane" which was once very prosperous. However, the marriage concepts of young Japanese people have also changed today. The survey shows that the number of people who believe that one must remain "pure" before marriage has dropped from 53.3% in 1968 to 31% today (2002).

More and more young people take divorce lightly, with 64% of them believing that they should divorce if necessary. It was under the influence of this concept that a few years ago a strange phenomenon occurred in Japan where a newlywed couple who were preparing to go on a honeymoon quarreled and divorced before they even boarded the plane.

Of course, this is also related to the fact that the new generation of Japanese women have evolved from being gentle and virtuous in the past to being self-centered, arbitrary and self-willed. The "Seiko Matsuda phenomenon" of female singer that appeared 10 years ago has not cooled down yet. Her free-spirited attitude towards life and her marriage and divorce experiences have stunned people with traditional ideas, but in the eyes of some young women, she is still an idol.

Japanese old woman: I don't want "bulky garbage"

Chinese people often say "people grow old and their beauty fades". But in Japan, those women who dress elegantly and wear lots of jewelry are often middle-aged or older women. Because after raising the children to adulthood, family expenses are reduced and the financial power falls into their hands.

Many people with a comfortable family income spend money on clothing and socializing. In Japanese department stores, the clothing styles for middle-aged and elderly women may not be considered very "trendy", but the workmanship and materials are very sophisticated, and the prices are not cheap.

However, middle-aged and elderly women from financially strapped families are still poor. They are the ones who rush to buy discounted meat and vegetables in supermarkets. They are also often the ones who chat and laugh loudly on trams and subways. Shyness has disappeared from them over the years. Oh, Japanese women!

The Japanese woman came to China but refused to go back, and the Japanese were shocked

The "2013 Japan 'Five Star Award' Study Tour Group" of Kitakyushu City University students in Japan, organized by the Chinese Language Education Promotion Association, arrived in Hangzhou a few days ago. Prior to this, they had spent nearly a month in Beijing, Tianjin, Xi'an and Chengdu, getting to know the real China through meticulous observation. During their on-the-go experiential journey, their impression of China was not exactly the same as the information they received in Japan.

Seeing China with one's own eyes completely changed one's impression of China. "China has a long history, it's very cool!" Goto Yosuke, who came to China for the first time, evaluated his trip in slightly stiff Chinese.

During this trip, Goto Yosuke and his classmates traveled from north to south, visiting Chinese landmarks such as the Marco Polo Bridge, the Terracotta Warriors and Horses of Qin Shihuang, the Leshan Giant Buddha, and the Chengdu Giant Panda Breeding Base. They also visited Nankai University, Southwest Jiaotong University, and other universities to meet with students of the same age.

Communicate with people, experience the food and customs of different regions, and experience the business atmosphere of different cities. In the words of Ye Yancai, the organizer and secretary-general of the Chinese Language Education Promotion Association, "Let them experience China firsthand, taste China firsthand, and see China firsthand."

Look at China. ”

Before coming to China, Fukushima Kie was very afraid of the Chinese. But when you walk on the streets of China and encounter difficulties, everyone around you will do their best to help you. As soon as they heard that the little girl was from Japan, people around her immediately slowed down their speech to communicate with her. Fukushima Kie felt that they were friendly, gentle and enthusiastic.

In less than a month, the authentic Chinese scenery and culture have completely changed the students' impression of China.

Tired of the gender discrimination of male dominance over female in Japanese companies, a large number of Japanese white-collar women have come to China and started their careers and new lives in China with their own abilities and hard-working spirit.

Kyodo News reported that in Shanghai, a growing international metropolis in China, a group of Japanese women came here to prove their abilities, smiling at risks and failures, and shining with the gentle attitude and delicate emotions they developed in Japan, plus the communication skills they honed in a foreign country.

"I don't want to continue like this." Yoshie Nagashima (39), who used to work at a large Japanese electrical factory, came up with this idea nine years ago. She is often called a "womanly" here, and once she is appreciated by her boss, she will arouse the jealousy of her male colleagues. With the attitude of studying in China with promising prospects, Changdao embarked on the journey of studying abroad in Shanghai.