Women should learn to be smart women, understand a man's advances and retreats, and know how to reserve a way out for themselves. To grasp a man is not just to capture his stomach, but more importantly, to make this man willingly pay for you and be close to you. Smart women know not to do the following: 1. Spending lavishly and not knowing how to manage family income and expenditure Whether it is a man or a woman, if there is someone in a family who spends money lavishly, there may come a day when they will be forced by life. If a man is extravagant, a family may feel a sense of crisis. If a woman is extravagant, no matter how much money or ability a man has, it will not be enough for her to spend. Even if he finds a rich bachelor, it may not be enough for her to spend. A woman with quality can clearly understand the value of spending money. In addition to spending money, she can also turn one dollar into two dollars and save it on a card. Such a woman will definitely bring good luck to her husband. 2. Not supporting a man’s social interactions, or even destroying his social circle Men need pride, face, and a sense of accomplishment. If a woman does not support his socializing, it is equivalent to imprisoning him directly. Over time, his circle will continue to shrink, and he may lose not only his friends, but also opportunities. Socializing also includes the opposite sex. If a woman cannot let go in this regard, she is asking for trouble. Men need friends of both the opposite sex and the same sex. The more friends they have, the more opportunities they will have in their careers. Restricting his social circle may very likely cut off his path to wealth. If you love him, let go, let him fight for you, and let him live a life with a sense of accomplishment. 3. Disclosing a man’s privacy in front of his friends and damaging his face A man's face is more important than the credit card in his pocket. A man can give you a credit card, but he will never allow you to talk behind his back. A woman who likes to reveal a man's privacy in front of his friends, colleagues or family is a woman who will not please a man. Sometimes what a man needs is not a virtuous wife, but an understanding wife who can keep secrets. A woman who damages a man's face in public is actually slapping herself in the face, and is also damaging the man's image value in the eyes of others. 4. Unable to be independent, longing for a man to be by her side all day An independent woman is full of charm, but if a woman is not independent, it will be terrible. Men like independent women because independent women know how to enjoy life and enrich themselves. A woman who is not independent in thought and often nags in front of a man is likely to cause conflicts. After a long time, men will no longer have the heart to work properly. A man who only focuses on women will definitely have immediate worries. If you want a lot of love, then stay away from him, and he will come to you with more love and care. 5. Suspicious and wants men to explain everything Women are naturally more sensitive to love, and the slightest disturbance may cause them to become emotional. If a man comes home late, she will ask; if a man drinks, she will ask clearly; even if a man goes out to eat, she will ask whether the person eating with him is a man or a woman. Long-term suspicion will only make a man collapse. How can he have the mind to live a good life with you and plan the future together? If you love him, choose to believe him. 6. Be a man’s boss, call him when you want him to come, and send him away when you want him to leave. Housework needs to be shared by two people. Asking either party to take full responsibility for the housework will affect family harmony. A smart woman knows how to delegate tasks, and will call him along while she is doing housework. It is definitely not about sitting there watching TV and eating melon seeds while asking your man to pour tea. When a woman raises a clerk at home, he is likely to be just a clerk outside. Don't discourage his enthusiasm in life. Let him live positively, which is more useful than picking up a treasure pot. A woman who ruins a man's lifestyle is more terrifying than taking away his credit card. |
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