Revealed: Why are bad women less likely to get cancer?

Recent studies have shown that 70% of urban female cancer patients are "good women". This is because they are particularly serious and meticulous in their daily lives, and are not good at relieving stress, which makes them more likely to develop cancer. They are characterized by being more serious (finance, secretarial work); unable to release or transform stress in time; engaging in jobs with low control (just obeying); and leading a lonely social life (introverted personality). The key for urban residents to prevent and treat cancer is to learn to release or transform stress. Cancer is just a chronic disease that can be prevented and cured. The mind can cause illness, but it can also cure it.

1. Which type of women are more likely to get cancer? Let’s start with good women

The patient is a woman who has had a good relationship with her husband for many years after marriage and is an enviable couple. Until the Cultural Revolution...

The incident happened during the Cultural Revolution, when the couple went to a cadre school together. Influenced by ultra-leftist ideas, the woman posted big-character posters against her husband. This incident greatly damaged the relationship between the couple, so much so that for many years after the end of the Cultural Revolution, her husband remained very indifferent to her. Although the couple still maintains the integrity of their family form, they have lost the intimacy they once had. They go to work separately during the day and go home to see each other at night. The husband goes to his room to read books and newspapers, and they basically have nothing to say to each other. The cold family relationship naturally caused lasting pressure and blow to this woman. As mentioned above, she first suffered from gynecological diseases, followed by gastrointestinal diseases, such as gastritis, gastric ulcers, and long-term constipation!

She couldn't digest the current family situation in her heart.

However, the family was able to survive like this, and her physical examinations did not reveal any more serious problems. This was because she had two important supports in her life, one was working, and the other was taking care of her grandchildren.

But the two supports were lost one after another.

She retired first. For someone who has been accustomed to going to work every day for decades, this is nothing short of a mental blow. She is very depressed staying at home every day. Soon, the grandson who had always been with him reached school age and was taken away by his parents. There was a huge void in her life. The coldness of her relationship with her husband only then showed the full weight of her pressure. She found it hard to bear but had a lot of self-respect by nature, so she suppressed her feelings and didn't say anything. She only sighed to her daughter occasionally: "Life is hard" and "Life is really meaningless."

An important physiological phenomenon explained this sigh: not long afterward she was diagnosed with colon cancer. Despite surgery and medication, he died more than a year later. Before his death, he talked to his daughter about his current situation which was difficult for him to face.

What particularly caught the author's attention in this cancer case was the patient's inner monologue that he "could not live any longer". It gives us reason to think that cancer, as an "incurable disease" in a certain sense, is a symbolic picture of the psychological code of "unable to survive".

Gynecological diseases and general gastrointestinal diseases once "symbolically" expressed the oppression this woman felt in her life. However, because she still had two major spiritual supports at that time: going to work and taking care of her grandchildren, she never had the inner language of "I can't live anymore." Once the two major supports disappear and you feel you can’t survive, cancer appears.

2. There is a kind of failure that makes people "feel like dying"

In a certain sense, cancer is probably the somatization of the psychological code of "cannot survive".

However, many people will ask: Who doesn't want to live? We say, yes, the vast majority of people are willing to live, including the vast majority of cancer patients who show a strong desire to survive and determination to overcome the disease during treatment. However, for some cancer patients, in their conscious mind, they really want to live, but in their subconscious mind they are suppressing the anguish of "not being able to live". Just like the woman mentioned above, she said loudly more than once in the last stage of her life that she didn't want to die, she wanted to live. But the same girl was suppressing the subconscious feeling of "not being able to survive" in her heart.

The human psychology is a unity of opposites.

When people are particularly painful and depressed, they will have an inner urge to "not want to live". Once this inner impulse turns into "cancer" in the body, he may or may not regret it. But no matter what, sometimes it is too late to regret, and physical illness is sometimes irreversible.

Here is another woman whose husband divorced her after he had an affair. After the divorce, the husband quickly remarried the third person. This was a devastating blow to the woman. She had always been in good health, but she was diagnosed with cancer not long after her divorce. After learning that she was critically ill, her husband, filled with guilt, immediately returned to her side. In addition to spending a huge amount of money on medical treatment and medicine, what was more important was that he stayed with her through the last days of her life. According to relatives, the woman knew she would not live long, but her husband's final protection and guilt gave her great comfort, and she passed away peacefully and contentedly.

Everyone who knows her knows that her cancer was caused by the "excruciating pain" after her failed marriage. "She was fine before, but she got cancer not long after the divorce." Many people said that she was really stupid and risked her life for marriage, which was not worth it. However, if we really get into the mind of this woman, we will find that at times death is easier to accept than some kind of mental pain. People often say that "death is a relief", which is also a special formula in the sense of "Deciphering the Code of Disease". If a woman ties her life's happiness to her marriage and family, and has made all sorts of contributions and sacrifices for her family, and she regards this marriage as the main value evaluation of her success or failure in life, and as her own personality, dignity and pride, then when she suffers the blow of failure, she will certainly find it difficult to face it.

Humans are advanced life forms with psychological defense mechanisms.

The somatization of psychological defense mechanisms creates disease.

When a person finds "surviving" more difficult and painful than dying, the subconscious mind may create an "incurable disease" such as cancer.

3. “Success Anxiety” is More Terrible Than Death

The psychological feelings of "not being able to survive" are varied.

A company boss has a successful career and seems to be living a splendid life on the surface, but he lives a very tiring and anxious life every day. Sometimes he is so fragile that he cannot take the elevator or ride in a car. When I went to the hospital, it was found that I had anxiety disorder, accompanied by high blood pressure, gastrointestinal problems and other issues. But this could not stop his ambition and greed. Until one day, the hospital examination said that he had cancer, which naturally caused panic among his family, but he himself suddenly calmed down.

Afterwards he told the author that he felt a peace of mind he had never felt before. I feel that since my health is like this, I don’t need to worry about anything. So he handed over the company's business to his subordinates one by one and concentrated on fighting cancer. Chant the Buddha's name, practice cultivation, eat wild vegetables, climb mountains, and use natural therapy on weekdays. In short, I felt relaxed. He could even calmly comfort his family and tell them not to be sad.

Fortunately, it was later confirmed that it was not cancer.

When the boss learned that he had cancer, he did not panic but felt relaxed. This shows that his previous high level of stress and the difficulty of "surviving" had already exceeded his fear of "death".

Although cancer did not appear in this case, it also proves that death and cancer associated with death are sometimes a kind of "relief" for people's "difficult life".

To truly see the psychological code of cancer.

4. The psychological complex of “not being able to survive”

The subconscious mind not only creates disease, it also creates the highest form of disease: death.

A large number of incurable and terminal diseases are, to a certain extent, pictures created by the subconscious mind.

In other words, some incurable and terminal illnesses are also "imagined" in our minds.

Especially cancer, which, to a certain extent, is a picture of "ulterior motives" created by the subconscious mind.

If we follow the line of thought in "Decoding the Disease Code", it is easy to find this conclusion in an unbiased analysis. It can also be found that the disease of cancer is a typical argument to prove the theory of this book.

1. First, we will notice that cancer is an extension and upgrade of many diseases created by the subconscious mind using metaphors.

For example, because the subconscious mind has pressure that it cannot digest mentally, it uses metaphors to create stomach diseases, intestinal diseases, or various digestive system diseases. When the disease has not achieved its goal and has not solved the problems that the mind cannot digest, and the situation worsens, then it may worsen and eventually develop into cancer, like the women described in this chapter, who initially developed common gastrointestinal diseases into colon cancer.

For example, common benign uterine tumors and breast tumors were originally created as metaphorical psychological mechanisms to indicate the patient's adverse situation in family life. If this disease fails to resolve the conflict for a long time, and the situation worsens further and the psychological pressure increases further, then they may develop into uterine cancer and breast cancer.

The cases where other common diseases develop into cancer can clearly illustrate this point.

2. Here, the subconscious analysis of cancer patients is divided into two steps.

The first step is to find the psychological causes of precancerous diseases. For example, how mentally indigestible stress specifically creates digestive system diseases. How psychological complexes in relationships between husband and wife and between children lead to gynecological diseases.

This analysis must be very specific and, based on the patient's own memories and experiences, find the cause of the disease that both he (she) and the doctor are convinced of.

Truly find the symbolic meaning of the subconscious mind creating disease.

The second step is to ask why the disease before cancer could not be cured for a long time.

Ask under what circumstances common precancerous diseases develop into cancer.

This is extremely important.

Generally speaking, cancer is not a sudden disease; it often evolves from other diseases. Some cancer patients seem to have cancer from the very beginning when the disease is discovered. That's because pre-cancerous conditions go unnoticed.

If a disease evolves into cancer, we call the latter the "ultimate form" of the former. The former is called the "preparatory form" of the latter. For example, uterine fibroids can develop into uterine cancer. Uterine cancer is the "ultimate form" of uterine fibroids. Uterine fibroids are a "preparatory form" of uterine cancer.

3. The psychological pressure some patients endure comes in the form of sudden, severe, and devastating trauma. Then, the subconscious mind may have already begun creating cancer while creating general diseases metaphorically. In this case, cancer comes on quickly, without a very obvious and long "preparatory form" phase.

There are two situations here

On the one hand, the seeds of cancer may have been lurking in a healthy body in advance, but for a healthy body, it may never germinate. For those who have suffered severe psychological trauma, they may be "directly" nurtured by the subconscious mind immediately.

On the other hand, it is also possible that a general illness suddenly develops, rapidly worsens, and soon "upgrades" to cancer.

4. No matter what kind of situation cancer is, whether it is a disease with a "preparatory form" that "escalates", or a disease that seems to have no "preparatory form" and "directly" appears to be cancer, these two situations have one thing in common:

Many cancer patients have a psychological complex of "not being able to survive". Everyone has the underlying emotion of "not wanting to live anymore". Although the vast majority of cancer patients we see have a strong desire to survive, this is only one side of the matter, only the public side, and only the side that is easiest to observe with the conscious mind. As long as we conduct a detailed investigation and understanding of the living environment and psychological depths of cancer patients, we can be sure that:

The reason why quite a few cancer patients get cancer, this near-fatal disease, in addition to other reasons, is because they have deep in their hearts life and psychological factors that make them "unable to survive".

In other words, the pressure that the patient endures in life that makes him feel "unable to survive" and the tendency of "not wanting to live" deep in his subconscious mind will eventually be expressed in the form of cancer, a disease that symbolizes death.

Here, the subconscious still strictly follows the metaphorical techniques used in creating dreams, neuroses, and other pictures.

5. Therefore, our conclusion is: only disease can be created freely.

Some cancer patients may have a "cannot survive" complex in their living environment.

Some cancer patients may have a "cannot survive" complex deep in their hearts.

These factors are generally hidden, because in human society one cannot freely express the desire to die, nor can one freely express the pain of not being able to live and the unbearable hardship.

People have responsibilities, obligations, and various ethical and moral codes of conduct.

Only disease is free to create.

Only illness is a hidden and free means of expression.

In his investigation of some cancer patients, the author found that many cancer patients had some extremely strong life reasons and psychological emotions of "not being able to live" before they became ill.

6. Therefore, when treating cancer, a very important task is to dig out the subconscious causes of the patient's cancer. The patient needs to find the subconscious complex of "not being able to live". If you don't let go of this complex, you will always suppress the urge to create a fatal disease in your subconscious mind, and any treatment will be difficult to be truly effective.

7. Because the urge to die and the complex of not being able to live are mostly in the subconscious, most of the cancer patients we observe have a strong desire to survive.

The desire to live and the urge to die are two sides of the same coin.

Two aspects of the unity of opposites.

On the one hand, we are creating disease and death, and on the other hand, we are pursuing life and fighting against disease and death.

This is exactly the complete psychological structure of a complete person when it comes to the issue of illness.

We should never forget the patient’s subconscious feeling of “can’t live” or “don’t want to live” just because we see his urgent desire to survive. We should not also forget that the patient has a strong desire to survive after seeing the psychological reasons why he "can't live" or "doesn't want to live". The closer you are to death, the stronger your desire to survive may be.

This is often a powerful factor that inspires patients to let go of the complex of "not being able to live" and overcome the disease.

8. Of course, there are many other causes of cancer, such as environmental pollution, smoking, genetics, etc. However, there is no problem with the assertion that cancer is to a certain extent a picture created by the subconscious mind.

When the subconscious mind creates pictures, the life reasons of "not being able to survive" and psychological codes play an important role.

The subconscious mind is very clear about the fatal nature of cancer, and it uses it to symbolize "unable to survive", which is very accurate. Quite a number of diseases are used to symbolically express the stress that the patient cannot bear in some aspect. When this stress continues and increases to the point where he feels he can't live, cancer develops.

"Unable to survive" is the subconscious critical point for the onset of cancer and the critical point felt deep in one's psychology.

We should conduct extensive research in this area to further grasp all the laws here.

5. The mind can cause disease and can also cure cancer

Cancer is considered by modern medicine to be one of the most difficult diseases to cure.

We believe that, to a certain extent, cancer should have more preventive measures and curative possibilities.

The theories and analysis in "Decoding the Disease" may help us gain some correct understanding of cancer.

First, since cancer is to a certain extent a picture created by the subconscious mind and is the physiological manifestation of the psychological state of "not being able to survive", then one of the ways to prevent and eradicate cancer is to make our "heart" understand.

A healthy mentality and a healthy attitude towards life are effective measures to prevent cancer. It can be said that by keeping your mind calm, focused, and in the sun, you can greatly reduce the possibility of getting cancer. Cancer, in a sense, is a picture of the dark side of social life reflected in the body, and a picture of serious psychological problems.

Second, cancer is a highly depressed emotion of "not being able to live" or "sadness".

Therefore, when a person has this kind of emotion, he should be good at guiding himself and releasing his emotions. As for family and interpersonal relationships, each other must provide each other with the conditions to release various emotions. This is the minimum requirement for modern civilization, or healthy civilization. Any practice that puts another person under absolute oppression, no matter whether he or she is a member of the family or a member of a social institution, is inhumane. None of it makes sense.

Third, when a person has a common disease, he should be good at analyzing the psychological roots of the disease. Understand the purpose of your subconscious mind. In this way, it is equivalent to communicating with the subconscious mind. At the same time, I accepted its advice. You should make some adjustments to your life and thinking. This avoids any possibility of the disease progressing to cancer.