What to do if you don't want to have sex at 9 months of pregnancy

With the development of society, people's daily material life is getting better and better, and at the same time, work pressure is also increasing. Many families finally paid off their car loans and just breathed a sigh of relief, but then they have to pay off the loans again. At this time, my wife became pregnant, and the family's financial situation was unexpected, and I was suddenly in trouble.

What if I get pregnant but don't think about the baby?

Whether to leave everything to fate or make a cruel choice during pregnancy depends entirely on your own choice. If you don't want to have children, having an abortion as soon as possible can reduce the damage to the female body. Abortion will indeed cause great harm to women's bodies and will also affect women's future pregnancies. Women should make the right choice, no matter how painful it is, it is their own choice.

The bleeding time after medical abortion is relatively long. If the bleeding continues for more than 1 week, you must go to the hospital immediately and ask the doctor for help. It is very dangerous to take medicine to cause a miscarriage.

If you choose to have an abortion, you must be at least 30 minutes pregnant before you can have it. There are many types of abortions, and professional hospitals will choose the appropriate abortion method based on your pregnancy time and health status. It is recommended to have an abortion as soon as possible, and the best time for an abortion is 30 to 55 days.

When the pregnancy is between 70 and 90 days, the embryo in the test tube will gradually grow, and the uterus will also expand, and the baby's embryo will be produced. Therefore, the difficulty of abortion at this time increases, and the risk is relatively high. If the pregnancy exceeds three months, that is, after 90 days, you can only choose induced abortion, because after 90 days, the bones of the fetus will harden, and the cervix will need to be dilated during delivery. At this time, the difficulty of surgery will increase if it exceeds three months. That is, the longer the time, the greater the risk, and it will also have a certain impact on the body's recovery.

Best time for abortion

You should understand that the sooner the abortion is done, the better. If you don’t choose the most appropriate time, it may cause some adverse effects, so you should choose carefully.

How to calculate the best time for abortion? The best time for abortion should be calculated as follows: In order to know how long it takes for an abortion to be performed during pregnancy, you must first know how to calculate the number of days of pregnancy. The number of days of pregnancy is calculated based on the day when the previous menstrual period began. For example, if July 20th was the day of your previous menstrual period and today is August 31st, then the pregnancy time is 42 days.

Generally speaking, the best time for a painless abortion is around 45 days during pregnancy. When the pregnancy has been confirmed, if you choose to have an abortion, you must do a gynecological examination before the abortion. A gynecological examination can not only identify the size of the gestational sac and determine whether surgery is possible, but also determine whether it is a normal pregnancy based on the location of the gestational sac and eliminate the possibility of ectopic pregnancy, which is of great significance to the safety of artificial abortion. Generally speaking, pre-abortion inspection saves time and effort.