Successful experience in preparing for pregnancy after ectopic pregnancy

At the end of 2013, just after we got our marriage certificate, we suddenly found out we were pregnant. The whole family was very happy. It happened to be Chinese New Year this year, so I went home to spend a few days with my mother. However, I have been feeling soreness and pain in my lower abdomen on the left side and pain in my anus, and I want to go to the toilet. However, I can't get out for most of the day, and eating a lot of vegetables doesn't help.

In fact, if you have a little common sense at this time, you will find that you are wrong, because the early pregnancy test paper can only detect it when it is about 40 days, and it has never been detected since then. Combined with the current symptoms, ectopic pregnancy can be detected. Two days later, I clearly remember the 29th day of the lunar year. When I was having lunch in the afternoon, my lower abdomen suddenly felt very painful and the pain lasted for several times. I went shopping with my husband and mother-in-law at noon. The pain started on the way and I ate a piece of jackfruit during that time. But after eating it, I felt something flowing down there. I was already feeling a little restless inside. Then I talked to my husband and went home to take a look. When I saw the dark red blood on my jeans, my body began to feel cold for a moment, and I didn't understand anything, because I had checked Baidu during the day and found that this symptom was consistent with ectopic pregnancy, but I just didn't want to admit it.

Afterwards, my husband and mother-in-law rushed me to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital, suspecting an ectopic pregnancy. They did a transvaginal ultrasound and saw blood all over my abdomen. I then underwent emergency surgery, and my heart was chilled. Forget it, I don’t want to look back. Sisters should be able to imagine that that day was the darkest day, and jackfruit became my nightmare. I just remember my husband's hands shaking as he signed various notes of consent. After being hospitalized, I rested at home and then went out to work. Contraceptive measures were taken during this period, as it was also the year of your luck. After that, I went through all kinds of trouble to find Chinese medicine practitioners and take Chinese medicine prescriptions, and I would go wherever they said it was good. This has been going on for more than a year. I have just started preparing for pregnancy, but I am afraid because the chance of experiencing an ectopic pregnancy is higher than that of an average person. During this period, I went to the hospital for a pressure test, and they said there was a small amount of backflow, which was equivalent to blockage, and I was afraid to move. To be honest, I was under a lot of pressure at that time. All my friends' children were already pregnant, and those who had always said they were not pregnant now got pregnant. The neighbors asked me all kinds of questions. Sometimes I really feel that I haven't done anything wrong, so why would God treat me like this?

Then I went for angiography, which showed that the left umbrella end was incompletely blocked, while the right side was smooth. At that time, the doctor recommended not to have surgery for fear of reinfection and to get pregnant on the right side. Later, I saw moxibustion in Mamabang, and I made it myself at home for a short time every day. Then I bought pure donkey-hide gelatin cakes, and I only ate one tablet of a box in 40 days. For the baby these two years are almost gone. After that, I kept going to the hospital to test my ovulation, but God was always playing tricks on me. Various problems always occurred during my ovulation period. Another year has passed like this, and until the month before last, I haven't gone to the hospital for testing, because I belong to the regular type, once on the left and once on the right. When I went home for the Mid-Autumn Festival, I asked my mother why I couldn’t get pregnant now that I had no problems and still had to have an abortion.

My cycle is relatively long, usually 39 or 40 days, and my mother asked me to eat fried brown sugar eggs with animal oil to regulate my menstruation. It can be eaten when you have stomachache. She said an aunt told her this when she was young, and it actually works very well. I have been asked many times to eat it before, but I hate raw eggs and animal oil. After that, I still took it 4 times, and she also felt that it was not right. She also helped me to say that no matter how long my period was, I had to have sex from the second day after 14 days until I felt that the ovulation period was completely over. After I got home, I did as he said. I didn’t pay attention to the statutory holidays last month, and I had a few days off for the National Day. Do all kinds of homework.

On the night of October 15, I suddenly had a dream in which I saw many white snakes crossing the road. I was so scared that I ran back home. Then the same thing happened at home... and I woke up in shock. Since I was actually still subconsciously expecting it this month, I bought an early pregnancy test and found a faint trace of pregnancy. Then I went to the hospital to test the hcg and progesterone levels that day and they were 72.5 and 27.5 respectively, indicating I was pregnant. But it's too early and cannot be removed from the palace.

I started to feel anxious again when I got pregnant. I couldn't sleep every day. I paid attention to various symptoms. I got extremely anxious at the slightest abnormality. I searched Baidu all the time at work. I waited for 10 days, which was October 26th, and had an ultrasound, but nothing was found. There was only a 0.6 liquid shadow that could not be removed. It was very difficult. I had pain in my lower abdomen and pelvis. I was so anxious every day that I could only fall asleep by listening to headphones.

Finally, I went to the hospital yesterday and saw the intrauterine gestational sac and yolk sac through B-ultrasound. Clear ectopic pregnancy. I have finally put down the stone in my heart. Today I went home to post this article to give my sisters some positive energy to society. I have said a lot, please don’t think I am nagging. I hope all the sisters who are preparing for pregnancy can achieve intrauterine pregnancy as soon as possible. Just relax a little, don't remember too much, and the baby will come.

October 15: hcg72.5 progesterone value 27.5; October 18: hcg404. Progesterone value 24.5; October 26: hcg4189 progesterone value 23.4; On November 2, the gestational sac was visible by B-ultrasound.