The first time was painful but no bleeding

Does it hurt a girl's first time? Many people originally thought that a woman's first night is very painful. Is this really the case? To be honest, whether it hurts or not varies from person to person. For some people, it hurts a lot, while for others, it doesn't hurt at all. Why do most women say “it hurts the first time”? Under normal circumstances, the front, back, left and right walls of the vagina fit very well. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is subjected to unprecedented fresh stimulation, and our brain must give cognition to this new touch.

Why is it so painful the first time but no bleeding?

During the first sexual intercourse, there is no bleeding but vaginal pain, which is a very normal phenomenon. Since Virgos usually have a broken hymen and have not had sex, their vagina is relatively tight. Don't worry too much. Generally speaking, as long as it is not too violent and does not cause the hymen to tear and then internal bleeding, slight bleeding or no bleeding is normal. It is recommended to rest after intercourse and keep the vulva clean and dry. If you do not want to get pregnant, take the initiative to adopt contraceptive methods.

If we recognize this new feeling as touch, the feeling of being stretched, or the feeling of being expanded, it will not cause us to have a fearful psychological phenomenon;

If our brains have a precondition that the first time we have sex, it will hurt, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as a sensory nerve, which will make us afraid and worried, because everyone feels too painful;

If our sexual needs have positive expectations, then we will perceive this feeling as obvious sexual excitement and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually aroused. This is something that can be explained with common psychological knowledge and is not mysterious.

Pain during sexual intercourse is a very common sexual problem in women. There are many reasons for this, such as bacterial infection, drug irritation, object skin allergy, and even excessive vaginal washing.

However, there are two common underlying factors of dyspareunia. That is vaginal dryness and vaginal tension. The essence of sexual life is a kind of physical friction.

Our skin is usually uncomfortable when it is rubbed without being moisturized. If it is the outer layer of the esophagus, the discomfort during gastroscopy will be fatal.