Why women are cold

Women's sexual apathy has a great impact on the quality of sexual life between couples, and may lead to a breakdown in the relationship between the couple. Therefore, when women experience sexual apathy, they should be treated in a timely manner. Generally, women's sexual frigidity is mainly caused by excessive use of contraceptives, mysophobia or excessive exercise, and disharmonious marital life can also cause sexual frigidity. You can learn about the causes of women's sexual frigidity.

1. Taking birth control pills

Oral contraceptives are one of the most commonly used contraceptive methods for women. They are highly effective and easy to use. However, as a sex hormone drug, it disrupts the normal hormone balance of the human body and affects the secretion of male and female hormones, which will reduce the secretion of vaginal lubrication and cause discomfort or pain due to dryness during sexual intercourse. Gynecologists recommend that if you experience these symptoms, you can consult a doctor and try a different brand of birth control pills or other contraceptive methods, such as using condoms.

2. Mysophobia

Many women, because they are too obsessed with cleanliness, like to use scented sanitary napkins during menstruation, or use excessive amounts of vaginal cleansers to clean their genitals. This can destroy the natural acid-base environment in the vagina, causing discomfort in the genitals and increasing the possibility of fungal infection. These symptoms will directly affect the quality of your sex life. In fact, the vagina has a self-cleaning function. It is enough to rinse with hot water or choose unscented soap.

3. Excessive exercise

Regular physical exercise is not only beneficial to physical health and disease prevention, but also can improve sexual arousal ability and enhance orgasm pleasure. However, everything has a limit. An overly intensive exercise program can leave you exhausted and unable to engage in sexual activity. When excessive exercise reduces the body's fat content to less than 15%, the secretion of estrogen, which controls sexual passion, will decrease, making it difficult for women to arouse sexual interest. So, when you want to improve the quality of your sex life through physical exercise, you must control the scale.

4. Smoking

The nicotine in tobacco causes the arteries to constrict, reducing blood flow to the vagina. The reproductive organs become less sensitive due to reduced blood flow, making it difficult to become sexually aroused and achieve orgasm. Gynecologists point out that the only way to solve this problem is to quit smoking.

5. Taking certain medications

The ingredients in anti-allergic drugs that inhibit glandular secretion can cause a decrease in natural vaginal lubrication and cause pain during sexual intercourse; high blood pressure and antidepressant drugs make the muscles and tissues around the reproductive organs too relaxed, making it difficult for women to reach orgasm. Gynecologists recommend that you consider using artificial vaginal lubricant while taking medication.

6. Mental and psychological factors suppress sexual desire

For example, if one receives the wrong sex education when young and thinks that sex is an immoral and unclean behavior, his sexual desire will be suppressed. In addition, tension, depression, anxiety, etc. can also affect the generation of sexual desire. The various anxieties and fears left over from past malignant stimulations, such as unmarried abortions and frequent artificial abortions, have caused pain and sequelae.

7. Lack of sexual knowledge and sexual skills can also lead to low sexual desire in women

If a couple does not understand the sexual physiology and psychological characteristics of men and women, does not understand the differences in sexual responses between men and women, ignores the preparations before sexual intercourse, fails to arouse sexual desire, and prevents the wife from experiencing sexual pleasure and orgasm, she will eventually lose interest in sex.

8. The relationship between husband and wife is not good

An unhappy marriage is associated with dislike and even hatred for one's spouse.

9. Poor physical function can also reduce sexual desire

Such as overwork or physical illness. Vulvar eczema, vulvar trauma (vulvar abrasions or hematomas), vulvar ulcers, clitoral or labia minora adhesions (caused by inflammation or trauma), vulvar dryness and wrinkles, atrophic lichen sclerosus, Bartholin gland cysts, etc. can all affect sexual life.

10. Postmenopausal women

People who have little sexual activity and rarely experience orgasm and sexual satisfaction during sex; people who have undergone oophorectomy.

11. Women who overeat have lower libido

As the old saying goes, food and sex are part of human nature. People often associate dietary changes with sexual desire. This is because eating disorders often cause abnormal sexual desire. Research results have confirmed this view: women's appetite disorders will directly affect their sexual desire and even sexual ability.

12. The influence of negative factors

Persistent and recurring lack of interest in sexual expression or sexual fantasies. Related to biological, physiological and social factors. Negative sexual conditioning can be formed before puberty or after marriage and is related to the long-term infusion and continuous reinforcement of many negative factors. Women are passively manipulated in sexual activities and cannot expect to enjoy them. There are sexual values ​​in society that discriminate against and restrict women's sexual activities, and women will bear more social and psychological pressure than men. These negative factors make many women's sexual response very slow and the probability of reaching orgasm is low. Any sexual trauma experienced by women during childhood or adolescence can significantly reduce their sexual desire.