Can my husband sleep with me during confinement?

It is best not to sleep with your husband during the confinement period. The main reason is that a woman is very weak after giving birth and needs comfort from her family. However, if your husband sleeps next to you, it will affect the couple's work and rest schedule and physical recovery. Therefore, it is best to sleep in separate beds during the confinement period. However, you can set up a bed next to the mother to make it easier to take care of her, let her feel the company of her family, and also help take care of the baby and reduce the mother's stress.

After giving birth, women are in a very vulnerable position. Especially during the confinement period, your body and mind are fragile and you need care and help the most. At this time, isn’t the person we need most our husband? Some fathers sleep with their children at night, but for him, he continues to sleep soundly and will not wake up even if the child kicks.

That will only add to the pain, mom. I'm in so much pain, but you're still sleeping so soundly. As for some mothers-in-law, they will take the initiative to sleep with the mother so that their sons can sleep more comfortably and not be woken up at night. However, many mothers are really not used to it, after all, they have never slept with their mother-in-law. It’s also not a very comfortable thing.

Of course, some mothers-in-law are nice people, and the mothers themselves don’t mind and approve of this approach, so it’s acceptable. On the contrary, it is not recommended. Of course, if the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very good and you are willing, you can consider sleeping with your mother-in-law.

But for me, I can never accept sleeping with my mother-in-law! I slept with my husband during the confinement period and let him participate in taking care of the baby. I witnessed with my own eyes how a woman learned to take care of a newborn baby when she was physically weak, and how she breastfed the baby 24 hours a day, and experienced the greatness of maternal love.

Sleeping with my husband was the decision made before I gave birth to the baby. There is no need to sleep in separate beds or even in separate rooms because of the baby. The mother-in-law loves her son. Doesn't a mother need more love than her son? I gave birth to the baby almost before the Chinese New Year, and my husband happened to be on vacation. He also talked to his boss and said he would go back to work after I was out of confinement. In fact, after we gave birth, I especially needed my husband's comfort and company. Taking care of the child with my husband can better benefit the relationship between husband and wife and parent-child relationship. At this time, you can know how the man next to you treats you. My mother-in-law cooks for us and washes clothes for the children every day. It feels awkward and uncomfortable not to let her sleep with us. In fact, if you can tolerate this discomfort, you can take care of her together with your mother-in-law, and add your husband. In this way, you will sleep better. Don't let your husband accompany you because you are soft-hearted. At this time, you will be humble and tolerant to each other. A responsible man will tolerate you, let you, and love you. I wish us happiness every day!