How can a girl avoid pain during her first time?

Girls who have had sex know that it will be particularly painful the first time, and their partners may also cause bleeding due to factors such as lack of experience and overly rough movements. When girls have sex for the first time, the hymen needs to be broken. The moment the hymen ruptures, it will cause the inner wall of the vagina to tear, so the bleeding is caused by the tear. Too rough movements will cause a large amount of bleeding. What should I do if it hurts the first time?

What to do if it hurts the first time

If the woman is also experiencing sex for the first time, she will be much more nervous than you! She is nervous and needs your care and gentleness to eliminate her nervousness. If you are too impatient and force entry before the woman's tension is relieved and her sexual excitement is not aroused, the woman's vaginal opening will be tightly closed, which will only cause her severe pain and even make it impossible to continue sexual intercourse.

Only when a woman's tension is eliminated and sexual excitement is fully aroused, will the labia majora and minora become engorged, the vaginal opening be exposed, and the penis be able to "slide" smoothly into the vagina due to the appearance of vaginal secretions and "leakage" fluid. All of this is designed by "God", but you must adapt to its occurrence. To eliminate the woman's nervousness, you should caress and kiss her more, let her feel your love, so that good sexual excitement will be aroused. When a woman's sexual excitement is aroused, her tension disappears, and her sexual organs begin to prepare physiologically for sexual intercourse (the most obvious sign is the sufficient flow of vaginal secretions to prepare for lubrication for sexual intercourse). Only then can she enter the sexual intercourse stage.

If the woman is still nervous, you can use human lubricant (available at adult stores) during the first intercourse. Apply it to the woman's vaginal opening and the man's glans before intercourse to act as a lubricant. This can avoid friction and pain during sexual intercourse caused by vaginal dryness.

During insertion, the female partner must take a collaborative approach. The most appropriate position for first-time sexual intercourse is the so-called normal position. The woman lies face up with her knees raised and legs spread, and the man lies in the middle with his upper body supported by his elbows, with the man on top and the woman on the bottom. The man's penis is not inserted downwards, but parallel to the bed, slowly inserted into the woman's lower body. At this time, the woman should open her legs as wide as possible, and after the penis is inserted into the vagina, she must straighten her waist to cater to the other party. In short, sexual behavior is a concrete joint task.