It hurt so much the first time. What should I use?

Basically all women have to experience their first time, and before women have sexual intercourse, there is a hymen in their body, so when they have their first time, most women will feel very painful because the hymen is ruptured. Therefore, if the man has no experience when doing it for the first time, it will make both parties very uncomfortable. So if it’s too painful for a woman’s first time, what methods should she use to relieve the pain?

Five points to pay attention to when having sex with a virgin for the first time

Eliminate her tension

Since virgins have no experience in sex, when having sex with a virgin, you have to be proactive, help her, and enlighten her so that the two of you can better navigate the world together. Essential knowledge about sex says that due to shyness or lack of experience, you may be nervous when you start having sex. At this time, don't be too anxious, take it slowly, gently undress her and eliminate her nervousness.

Because of shyness, women are not as open and relaxed as mature young women and cannot get into the mood quickly during their first sexual intercourse. Therefore, you should do enough foreplay and do more to touch the sensitive parts, so that the virgin can better enter the intoxicated state, which is conducive to sex.

Give her more guidance during sex

When making love, remind her from time to time how to get into the right position, instead of just rushing into it yourself. Regarding the specific way a virgin has sex for the first time, it is best to start with only common ways of sex. Do not use some rare and alternative ways of sex at the beginning, as this may make the virgin feel scared or disgusted.

As the two of you have sex more often, you can slowly adopt other stimulating and rare sex methods, so that the virgin will be more adaptable.

Choose a suitable posture

If a virgin cannot cooperate well with a man during sex due to lack of experience, shyness, etc., it is introduced in the knowledge of gender that if the man still adopts the position of man on top and woman on bottom at this time, it will be very troublesome and he may not even be able to find the vaginal opening and become flustered, especially when the man also lacks sexual experience.

At this time, it is best to use a method that makes both parties feel comfortable and can be done relatively quickly. For example, you can have your girlfriend sit on the edge of a flat and wide table with her legs apart, and you stand facing her. In this way, your girlfriend's vagina will be facing your penis, and you can clearly see the woman's vagina and find the vagina quickly. After insertion, you can conveniently support the inserted penis with your hand to make the insertion of the penis go on better.

It takes longer to have sex with a virgin

When a Virgo has sex, she may feel nervous, shy, or in pain, and may not cooperate well with the man. At this time, the man must persist for a longer time, so that he can cope with many unexpected situations and avoid being in a hurry, so as to make the sex process perfect.

If a man feels that he lacks confidence in these aspects, it is best to ejaculate once before having sex. This way, when you have sex with your virgin friend again, you will be able to last longer and the sex will be smoother.

Don't be too aggressive

When making love, don't be too violent, be gentle. Because virgins don't pay as much attention to physical sensory stimulation as young women do, they focus more on the feeling of being loved and have more spiritual requirements.

Gentle movements will make her feel satisfied, while too quick and too large movements will make her feel uncomfortable or even painful. In addition, when having sex with a virgin, the environment should be as comfortable as possible. This can better eliminate the virgin's nervousness and make her more relaxed during sex.