Women's vanity

Vanity is something we all have. It can be said that no matter whether we are adults in their forties or children in their years old, the mentality of vanity exists. We cannot simply think that vanity is a bad thing, because some people have vanity at the beginning, and then work hard to make vanity their motivation in the later stage. How can we overcome the vanity of negative women?

Vanity is a psychological state of protecting one's self-esteem in an inappropriate and false manner. Psychology believes that vanity is an excessive expression of self-esteem and an abnormal social emotion that people display in order to gain honor or attract the general attention of others. Under the influence of vanity, people often only pursue appearance without considering the actual conditions, and finally bring unnecessary harm to themselves and others. Driven by strong vanity, people often lose their reason, develop terrible psychological motivations, and cause very serious consequences.

Both men and women have vanity, but generally speaking, women are more vain than men. Therefore, vanity brings more pain to women than to men. People of this type appear to be extremely vain on the surface, believing that face is above all else and they like to put on a brave face, but they are actually very empty inside and lack a sense of security. The superficial vanity and the inner mood are always in constant struggle: on the one hand, before the goal is achieved, one will be tortured by one's unsatisfactory current situation; on the other hand, even if the goal is achieved in time, one will still be very uneasy in the heart and be afraid that the truth of the matter will be discovered. If a person is tormented by such contradictory psychology from at least two aspects for a long time, their soul will always be tormented in pain and they will not feel any happiness. Therefore, women must get rid of the trouble of vanity.

(1) Have self-respect and self-esteem. The most basic requirement for being a human being is honesty and integrity. One should not lose one's personality and self-respect for the sake of temporary psychological satisfaction. Only by maintaining self-respect and self-esteem can one avoid losing one's personality due to external interference.

(2) Establish lofty ideals. Compared with external beauty, women should pursue inner truth rather than fame. Many women can achieve extraordinary results in ordinary jobs because they have their own ideals and are self-aware. They may not be very beautiful on the outside, but their hearts are definitely the most beautiful. In other words, women should be able to evaluate themselves correctly, see both their strengths and shortcomings, and always work hard to achieve their ideals.

(3) Treat public opinion correctly. Vanity and self-esteem are interrelated, and self-esteem is closely related to the surrounding public opinion. To overcome vanity, you must treat public opinion correctly. Other people's discussions and other people's superior conditions should not become factors that affect yourself. Only confident and self-reliant women can not be driven by vanity.

(4) Overcome the blind mentality of comparison. Comparing yourself horizontally with others will never make you mentally balanced, and your vanity will only grow stronger. If you must compare, compare with your past to see if you have made progress in all aspects, and use the comparison to motivate yourself to keep moving forward.