How to Massage the Clitoris

Caressing the clitoris is an indispensable part of sexual life, and it is also a sexual skill that needs to be mastered. Through caressing, it can be better used and developed, which can satisfy the other party, while also achieving sexual stimulation and helping women successfully reach orgasm. When caressing the clitoris, you must pay attention to gentleness and moderation of the movements, and never be too violent, otherwise it is likely to cause local damage or even infection.

1. Must be timely and appropriate

Some women cannot orgasm without clitoral caressing. The area around the clitoris is a sensitive area. You should make full use of your ten fingers and caress it carefully, without being too rough or careless. The best way is to use your fingers to massage the area above the pubic bone first, and then slowly approach the clitoris after the sensitivity of the clitoris increases.

Successful caressing of the clitoris can produce great pleasure and even drive women to orgasm.

2. Don’t forget to caress other sensitive areas

Another way to arouse female sexual desire is to caress the neck, armpits, wrists, feet and other parts. You can massage the clitoris first, from top to bottom, and stimulate them in a straight line. This method can make caressing the clitoris smoother.

3. Massage your back and thighs

Massaging the back and thighs is to put women in a very relaxed state. Rubbing like drawing a picture, women's resistance will gradually disappear during the gentle massage, which is also conducive to entering the state of caressing the clitoris. In addition, massaging the buttocks, breasts, and nipples, for example, making small circles while massaging from the inside to the outside with four fingertips, will have obvious effects. There is a very sensitive area slightly above the center of the buttocks. If you press your index and middle fingers from the anus toward the waist, your lower body will become very sensitive.

Importance of the clitoris

Sexologists have found that 89% of female orgasms come from stimulation of the clitoris. For men, it is unimaginable to reach orgasm without stimulating his penis. Similarly, for women to reach orgasm or enjoy perfect sexual experience, 5-15 minutes of clitoral stimulation is also indispensable.

The most common misunderstanding is that many couples think that the wife's orgasm is due to the husband's large penis or because the man penetrates deeper and deeper as the orgasm approaches, but the result is often regrettable. In fact, the wife's orgasm mainly depends on the expansion of the external opening of the vagina by the husband's penis when the penis is inserted, which causes mechanical traction on both sides of the labia minora and clitoral foreskin, and produces indirect clitoral stimulation through the rhythmic movement of the clitoral body and active penis twitching. In addition, the pubic hair inadvertently rubs against the wife's clitoris, and when the insertion is very deep, it inadvertently increases the contact area and pressure on the clitoris.

The size of the clitoris

The size of the clitoris may be affected by genetic and endocrine factors, and its appearance is related to the development of adjacent tissues. Although the skin of the glans clitoridis, foreskin and labia minora may become wrinkled, proliferate and chronically congested due to frequent sexual stimulation, the clitoral cavernous tissue does not experience this reactive hyperplasia. Some people believe that masturbation in women can lead to clitoral enlargement. Similarly, there is no scientific basis for men to worry that masturbation will cause their penis to shrink or affect its normal growth. Some young women often worry about abnormal development of their external genitalia and like to compare themselves with their peers when taking a bath, which causes serious psychological burden.

There is great individual variation in the size, shape, and position of the female clitoris. In a small number of people, the clitorises become abnormally enlarged due to long-term use of estrogen or excessive androgen secretion in the body; in some cases, the glans clitoris is divided into two halves and is only connected at the base. It is not uncommon for teenage girls to have abnormalities in their reproductive organs. If there is an abnormality in the arrangement of genes in chromosomes, especially sex chromosomes, pathology or deformity may occur. In addition, during the embryonic development process, the embryo may be disturbed by internal and external environmental factors, such as the mother's illness, taking the wrong medication, X-ray exposure, inhalation of toxic and harmful gases or dust, etc., which may also cause embryonic developmental distortion and deformity. When endocrine organs become abnormal, female virilization may occur. Gonads are the main organs that determine sex, and the sex hormones they secrete play a major role in sex determination.